Is it normal to feel this way about a stranger.

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I am an erotomaniac* a person who believes a celebrity/stranger is in love with them* I do not believe that the person I was priorly obsessed with is communicating with me anymore, but I still believe that others in public are fixated with me... I tried telling my mom I need to see a therapist because I am delusional. I started my delusions about 3 years ago with Nick Jonas and then started my delusions with older boys from school. I am not causing them any physical harm and I know to them it only appears I have a crush.. I then moved on to another celebrity (Christopher Moy) This is when my illness was the worst. I actually had my mom take me to meet him. I acted like a normal fan, I am not obviously obsessed with him, eg: attempting to contact him. My mom is part of the problem, the whole concert she continued to inform me of things like "OH! He keeps looking at you!" I still continue to stalk his twitter, with hope that K am not crazy. I know I am BEYOND crazy & not normal. I really would like help!! Or advice...

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago | pl

    People who are truly crazy do not realize that they have a problem. They think that they are the only normal one and everybody else is the crazy one.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Could you be addicted to the thrill of pretending someone famous/popular could be interested in you.

    Focus your extra energy into something more rewarding and productive.

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  • DannyKanes
    12 years ago

    This explains all the Justin Bieber fans

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  • darren3
    12 years ago

    Stop being a pathetic loser for starters.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I think you are a silly little girl.

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  • la_la_la_la
    12 years ago

    Hiya,

    I've had tons of crushes, but I’m aware they aren't going to go anywhere and how wrong it would be to try and make it happen. I'm happier having said crushes than not doing so and they're part of what makes me me, I think –- I can measure periods of my life by them, they were that intense. It's quite funny to look back on.

    I'm not far off 30 and I can't see this ever stopping, nor do I want it to – unless I become like Stan out of that Eminem song (I like him –- in fact he's been one of said crushes -- but that song terrifies me), and I hope I’ll realise if that happens.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Yeah, I'm just the same. I only do it because I think it's fun to imagine it. :D

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  • peejays312
    12 years ago

    See you having delusions about Nick Jonas is completely understandable, but Chris Moy? seriously girly....go seek help. Best ov lucksss:)

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  • kisskiss
    12 years ago

    Stalker!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • kathjjj
    12 years ago

    I actually hate Justin Bieber, lol. But I agree with that^^

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    I don't think you're crazy, you just develop crushes easily. And you admit that it becomes a problem sometimes, instead of denying it. I have a crush on a guy whose kinda famous, but I'm aware that it's not likely to go anywhere. As long as you realize that someone who doesn't know you isn't interested in you, I'd say you're fine. Eventually you'll meet a good man who likes you. :)

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  • Oli
    12 years ago

    Well, at least you know what's going on instead of neimg in denial.

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  • kathjjj
    12 years ago

    F you :)

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  • kathjjj
    12 years ago

    Thanks :)
    I hope so because I have zero experience with guys

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    • Ldizzy1234
      12 years ago

      Don't worry about it, girl. Trust me, I've had crushes before that seemed very intense and obsessive, but I promise you, you're most likely gonna grow out of it.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    It sounds like just a small case of paranoia with your crushes to me. You get crushes, and then are wondering and sometimes even sensing that they're watching you or paying attention to what you say/think.

    And Shackleford96 is right. People who are actually crazy don't know that they're crazy, and probably won't believe it when someone tries to tell them they are. A lot of times crazy people don't even realize they're going crazy when its obvious to other people that they are.

    My advice to you is, don't worry about it. If you really want to stop it in its tracks now, just talk with a therapist about it. But everybody gets crushes sometimes, and sometimes people do get them and feel them more intensely then others. I can attest to that. Or you could always just ride it out, because I'm sure you'll grow out of it as you get older and gain more experience.

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  • kathjjj
    12 years ago

    That's probably the best thing for me... I get stuck at home a lot. When I'm busy I seem to forget about 'him' more.

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