Is it normal to feel this way 9 months later?

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I had my first boyfriend when I was 18. We broke up, but he is still all I can think about. It's been about 9 months. He's moved on and has a new girlfriend. I know it's normal to never get over your first love, but I thought since I was older I wouldn't have this constant heart broken feeling. I guess I'm just wondering if it was normal to feel this way as a 19 year old who knows better..

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  • *~ThePurplePixie~*
    11 years ago

    Hi there!

    This is completely normal!
    Sometimes, when we feel intense sensations of love or a connection with them, it can take years to move on. Time is a great healer though, and with time, chances are you'll have found someone else, or at least have moved on a little.

    Don't beat yourself up about it!

    Good luck!

    xx

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  • metallover1991
    12 years ago

    3 fucking years and I still think about her.

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  • scandinavia
    12 years ago

    You might actually just love him, have you ever thought about that?... I have felt the same way about a guy too, longing for him months and months down the line, I realised I loved him... He wasn't my first love though and neither did I ever long for my first.....

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  • aussiewolf
    12 years ago

    you never forget your first. yes its hard to get over but you will feel better with time. maybe find a rebound guy?

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