Is it normal to feel this way?

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I've been living with my step-sister for about 3yrs now. We don't really get along but we try to. And I know that alot of the time we are fighting. But there is one thing that bothers me. Since I met her she has had about two boyfriends but it never bothered me. There was this boy in my class that I noticed and thought was really kool. He plays drums and I love listening when he does. I used to try to think of something to say but I'm really shy so I let it go. About a week into summer vacation I found out that my step-sister just started dating him. When I first found out it was like my whole world just started crashing. When I see her texting or talking about him it hurts. I've noticed that we have alot in common and they are as different as night and day. At night when I think about him with her I want to cry. It irritates me and I'm forever trying to get her to invite me to hang out with them just to be near him. However when she is at her mother's house its like I don't really care anymore what happens to them. Does this mean I like him? And if so what do I do? Is this normal?

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Based on 32 votes (25 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    We want what we cannot have. Like when you had the crush on him you couldn't have him because you were too shy then you let him go and don't care anymore. But right when your sister starts dating him you cannot have him therefore you want him. It's weird how our brains function.

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  • SassyFrassyLassie_old
    13 years ago

    I think this is more about your relationship with your step-sister than your crush on that guy. You should talk to her... like what Blop^^ wrote.

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  • blop
    13 years ago

    I think that you might possibly have a small crush on him. I do however think that you might be jealous that they are together because you did have an interest first and you were too shy to talk to him. It might not even be that you are jealous of the relationship you might just be jealous that your step-sister was able to do this with such ease and well she's with him and you are not. You should talk to her about it and tell her how you feel and maybe she can give you a few tips on how to talk to guys and not be so shy.

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