Is it normal to feel this way?

93% Normal
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I broke up with an ex girlfriend about 2 months ago due to anxiety and OCD. I took the time to try to figure myself out and take care of myself and I ended up going on medication and my true feelings came out for my ex and I told her how I felt, which is that I love her. However, she said she just doesn't have those feelings for me anymore and doesn't see me like "that" anymore. So I told her I couldn't be friends with her because it hurts me to much. Now I told her all this about 2 or 3 weeks ago I think.

Now I started talking to this other girl and she's really nice and attractive and I was excited to go hang out with her the first night. Now I'm a little excited for the next date, but I'm not sure if I'm extremely excited and I feel like I just have doubts running through my head. But is it normal to feel completely uncertain or questionable after a first date or even just currently feel like whatever still because of my ex? I mean I don't want to ruin an opportunity to meet a new girl.

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93% Normal
Based on 56 votes (52 yes)
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  • purplegirl22
    12 years ago

    Don't worry you will get over your ex soon enough. Only after you get over her it is time to start a new relationship.

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  • Savmagic
    13 years ago

    Just chill out be you for a while clearly your not ready to start another relationship

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  • stikyfangers
    13 years ago

    Don't carry old baggage of insecurity into the new relationship. Watch the OCD too

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  • neopythagorean
    14 years ago

    You're still emotionally numb from your last relationship. This is normal. The healthy thing to do would be to reconnect with yourself by doing relaxing/fun things for a while before attempting to start another relationship. You will know when you are ready to start dating again when you are happy with your life but getting a little lonely.

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