Is it normal to feel this way?

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Alright so I'm in collage and a guy just told me how he used to have a crush on me and then we hugged, and then I didn't really know what to do. See, I've never been in a relationship, I've never even been asked out!! But I knew that he wanted SOMETHING, so I kissed him on the cheek. And then when he was saying how he liked me I didn't know what to do! So...now we're going out? Frankly I have no idea how I feel about him, like, I don't not like him but I....I'm so confused -_-

Is it normal for me to be unsure about how I feel? Like, I don't feel like i'm in love with the guy but that's probably the norm. But I don't know what to say or how to do this. It's like a weird fear inside. I dunno what kind of advice I'm asking for here just...something?

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  • 4creilly
    11 years ago

    Emotions are complex, relax and explore your emotions. Sometimes men and women want the same thing. All anyone at there base really wants is to be loved, understood and have companionship

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  • Pandabear16
    11 years ago

    Yeahh that's normal i believe. I mean it happened to me when i first met my girlfriend, she asked me out i said yes even though i wasn't sure if i even liked her. It all happened so fast, i didnt want to hurt her feelings so i just went along? But as i got to know her better and be with her i madly fell in love with her! She became the best thing that ever happened to me, but last year we broke up and im still in love with her and i miss her so much....blah blah blah blah. So yeah its normal, just wait how it turns out.

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  • ilola8
    11 years ago

    It is normal not knowing how you feel about someone. You are not obligated to be in love with the person. Being in love is a BIG step for people who wanna spend with eachother for the rest of their lives. Do you want that?

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  • la_uva_mojada
    11 years ago

    Being in college they never taught it's not spelled "collage" ? Lol

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I know what to do!!! Lol You just date him. Dates are there for two people to get to know eachother and see if you're right for eachother. I would start there, telling him you'd like to give this a shot but you're not sure how you feel yet. That way you don't have to kiss or rush things, just get to know eachotehr slowly by going to coffee or seeing a movie :) Luck!

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  • normalisboringbr0
    11 years ago

    you don't know it's love until you've been together for a while. love isn't automatic, and doesn't always happen in relationships. just enjoy being with him and see where it goes, take it day by day. :) hope it works out xo

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