Is it normal to feel this shitty after losing someone you love?

It is very normal it just takes time and that's the only thing. Everything will turn out

I know this sounds crappy and cliche but believe me time heals everything. Just wait a little. In life, what will happen will happen, and maybe you will find out that one loss is a door to another gain. Please do not worry. Life is too short to waste. I wish the best for you.

Last break up I had, it took me like half a year to get over, it was kind of weird, I didn't even think I had that strong of feelings for her but I just kind of felt like life was sort of dragging and I always kind of moped, break ups with people you loved can take a long ass time to get over but now I'm golden, I'm hanging out with friends again, smoking weed, playing video games and trying to find a new girlfriend lol

It's a very slow process. Take as much time as you need. I hope you feel better soon.

As soon as you have sex with someone else you will no longer feel the "love" you felt.

And for the fifteen year olds on IIN, I'm not trolling, it's totally true. Well for guys anyway, I don't know about women but I assume they'd be similar.

I just went through this and what helped me was just focusing on all the bad things. I didn't even see the break up coming but bam I had to move out. It ended for a reason and I hope you can be happy again. I sure am..turned out to be a blessing :) good luck!