Is it normal to feel this level of dedication?

Hello, To get to the point here, is that I wish to join the military. More specially the Army (special forces). So is it normal that I do not want to have sex (incase of children), marry or date anyone incase if I were to die and break some womans heart. Some tell me this is "Too" selfless of me. However I have a long jouerny ahead of me and I feel it would be stressful on a spouse that she would'nt know where I am (special forces) and that I will be a cold-blooded killer. I already sacrficed some of my social life on this single goal. The million dollar question is: Is this "too" selfless of me and to work on a family when I'm done with the army?

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  • AbnormallyAwesome

    The million dollar question is: Why do you want to be a solier if you think they are cold-blooded killers?

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    • dom180

      Your profile pic is one of my favourites :)

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      • AbnormallyAwesome

        thanks :D

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  • thegypsysailor

    If you meet the "right" person, I'm pretty sure your attitude will change.
    Anyway, it's a long journey from wishing to be in the special forces, (5% of applicants pass??)so I'd not make too many decisions based on that goal, until you have actually achieved it.

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  • ucipher8

    If i joined the armed forces, i would be a specialist no doubt. Fact is, if i go i leave all my stuff behind, and im talking about actual "stuff" that i dont want to sell or see myself part with.

    I gave up the dream of having a family and i wish i did have the permission (not license) to blow the shit out of your house, car or whatever my crosshairs are looking at.

    All jokes aside, i dont think its too selfless. I do however think that you are right. If you truly are thinking what you speak, it's probably better not to have a family or children.

    The million dollar question is: do you want to be THAT dedicated to the military?

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Hope it all works out for you.

    Try not to get shot on one of them meaningless campaigns.

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