Is it normal to feel this down?

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I cry all the time, my heart always aches, and when a guy hits on me, I go right back to the thought of the guy present who's making me insane! Our familys our close and have been for about four years now and I'm totally in love with him, but he only thinks of me as a little sister, it's really hard NOT to think about him, it hurts so much! I hate eating, I hate looking at myself in the mirror, but ppl tell me all the time I'm gorgeoues, but I CANT see it, I feel like I won't be happy till he's mine. My whole head spins around him... And now he's with this girl(been about eight months or so) and she's moving in with him TODAY ): my heart feels so broekn, and Im unhappy, I feel as if I'll be alone for forever... I also wrote him a two paged note the other night describing him through my eyes and told him I love him, and he's yet to bring it up... What should I do? I crave a companion , but Boone feels right but him... Is this normal??? ):

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  • KLynn2013
    12 years ago

    Wow, thanx (: that really helped me calm down a bit, it's just driving me nuts! ): I really needed to hear that though(:

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Calm yourself down! Console yourself with the fact that moving the gf in means he will burn that relationship out more quickly than planned. If you two are meant to be, then you will be when the time is right. For whatever reason the time isn't right now, so look after yourself until then. If you two do end up together you want him to be proud of you as his partner / wife.

    Don't do anything you will regret in later years eg, like turn up naked at his front door ;o)

    Play it cool for now!

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  • katerhater97
    12 years ago

    hey, i have almost exactly the same problem. Except i've felt that way about him since i was six, and i havent confessed my feelings to him. So if i'm normal then you are normal (:

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