Is it normal to feel the way i do over this situation?

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I have been dating this girl a little less than a month and have feelings for her. We recently decided that we are going to be boyfriend and girlfriend.

She broke up with her husband about five months ago and when we first started dating she told me she hadn't slept with any other guys since she broke up, only fooled around with two. The other day, a little bit after we decided to be boyfriend/girlfriend, she told me she had lied to me. She actually had slept with two other guys since her ex-husband and fooled around with two more.

I asked her why she lied to me and she told me that it was because she didn't know if we were going to be serious and didn't feel like she needed to tell me everything about herself.

I asked her why she chose me then and she said she thought I was a "good man" and also didn't know why she started feeling close to me.

Now I feel angry. I don't know which is worse, that she lied or what she lied about. I feel like she is a sl*t now and her value is decreased somewhat; it makes me feel less special. I'm not saying that this is a good thing I feel; ideally, I would like to get past this as it is already affecting the relationship. But I'm not sure what to think/feel now. I have lost some feeling for her over this situation...

What do you guys think? Any comments welcome...

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  • Reality_Cheque_$$$
    12 years ago

    Fupp yeah, I'd be pissed too. Your now "girlfriend" is a cum dumpster congratz! :OD

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    • iindia
      12 years ago

      hahaha

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    SHIT ON HER KNICKERS

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  • Ryan556
    11 years ago

    Ah I think it's wierd she lied and that she fooled around with some people and lied I'd be pissed that my gf is a whore does she have kids too if so dump da bitch

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  • Darkoil
    12 years ago

    Get over yourself you prick, even if she had shagged 50 guys, 1 - thats her business. 2 - what does it even fuckin matter.

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  • ChasingAfterPond<3
    12 years ago

    She shouldn't have lied to you. I can understand why that would piss you off. The fact that she hid because "she didn't know if you guys were going to be serious" isn't the greatest reason in the world either. She should have been upfront and honest with you. Without trust and honesty, there is no relationsip. You can either move past the fact that she lied and did what she did or you can dump and move on and hopefully find a girl that is honest with you.

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