Is it normal to feel the way i do?

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Is it normal for your boyfriend to tell you he is there for you and that he loves you "more then anything" and acts all normal, but then he turns around after and hour of not replying and says "he is buy and will talk later" turn his phone off and has not relied about 24hours and still has his phone off? I am worried sick about him I haven't eaten in that time because my stomach is in a knot does anyone know what tis means when someone does this because it really hurts :'( by the way he had planned to come to mine at lunch today and I just wanna know he is okay :.( we have dated on and off for 5 years and I just want to know we are okay :.( please help.

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Based on 24 votes (7 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Maybe it is normal.

    Is it normal for a girlfriend to expect constant contact/attention and, when it's not given, become so distraught she is sick and cannot eat?

    Sometimes people need space, even in loving relationships --
    and it is perfectly normal.
    Perhaps you could try to be a little more self-reliant and independent so that you don't depend on him so much to bring you security.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      I like that little squirrel picture.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Thanks. He looks sincere, eh.

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          Can I squeeze your girl butt?

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            No.
            And, besides, it's a lady-butt.

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    It means he is busy, and will talk later. Just because someone loves you doesn't mean they can be with you all the time.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Ya'll have dated off and on for 5 years, huh? Why does that not surprise me? In my humble opinion I think you jerking your chain.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    After 5 years, I would think you know this guy pretty well and your suspicions are probably pretty sound. Nobody is that busy for 24 hours, that they can't accept or send a quick message or call, if for nothing more than to say hi and I love you.
    Move on.

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  • tigressdawn
    10 years ago

    He's playing games. You can either address this, ignore the games and not give him the attention he's trying to get, or dump him. I'd take a hard look at yourself, and then make a list of what you want in a guy and what your personal boundaries are. If he doesn't fit these, dump him. Life is too short to waste on people not worth your time.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Denial isn't just a river in Egypt.....

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  • Cellbiologyphiliac
    10 years ago

    I would suggest to get a new boyfriend and leave this guy in the dust. It sounds like he is cheating on you and/or playing you for a fool.

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    • ThisIsImpossible
      10 years ago

      Theres not enough evidence to assume that, I guess it's a possibility. You sound insecure the way you just jump to cheating just for not texting soneone for one day.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      Or she could find a guy who is 70 years old....

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