Is it normal to feel taking for granted?

I feel like people dont take me as serious. Like they brush me off. My friends never ask if im ok. Im not. They always have problems and want my advise.but when i ask for some advise they call me annoying and act like they have something more important to do.

I need new friends 11
Talk to them 7
Get new friends 18
Im crazy 1
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  • Short4Words

    I don't know man. I feel the same way sometimes. Like how in conversations I get cut off or people just stop listening. I don't even think it's my conversational skills I just don't think they respect me as a person or see me as insignificant. I mean when someone speaks, I fucking listen, I don't care if it's boring or not. I at least deserve that.

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    • ***

      Yea like your trying to tell them ur problem and someone pulls them away or they look like they don't care so u just give up

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      • RomeoDeMontague

        Are you the Op because I got this same exact treatment from most people I know. Those people are not your friends. Real friends care about you and how you feel. When you have all the answers generally people just like to take advantage of you. These type of people are selfish and only care about themselves. However most people are like this.

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  • thegypsysailor

    A "friend" is someone who is there for you, even when it's inconvenient for them.

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    • Sumi

      Love "even when it's inconvenient for them" well put. You can tell the difference when they are there for you.

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  • MissesAnonymous23

    I'm in the same boat. It's like my friends want to care, but don't have the attention span to listen to a story. But they can tell their story and I listen and give them advice when wanted, and just listen when not. I know how you feel. We need new friends :/

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  • thegypsysailor

    Make new "friends". These don't sound like friends to me.

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  • ***

    Yea like ur trying to tell them ur problem and someone pulls them away or they look at u like they dont even care

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  • peterr

    Have oral sex with your friends and it will make them closer to you.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    I'm crazy.

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  • gummy_jr

    Is it normal to feel *taken* for granted?

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