Is it normal to feel sympathy for her?

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So I used to have a thing for this guy and he had a thing for me, and after six months of us talking on again-off again, he started dating another girl. Of course I was upset about it, but life goes on.

Eight months later they broke up, which was yesterday. They broke up because he was talking to other girls and going behind her back about a lot of things, which is exactly what he did to me when we talked. He got mad at her and sent her an angry text early in the morning when she woke up. He was talking to two other girls while they were dating. She tweeted that she felt like she's competing with the girls he talks to and that her feelings were fading away and that they were better off as friends. The next day, BAM. They broke up. He deleted her number off his phone and he's already flirting and talking to other girls after they just broke up.

Is it normal for me to feel really bad for her? I went through the same crap as her and I feel like talking to her about it. I don't personally know her and she personally doesn't know me, so that would be out of line..

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  • LightningTechnician
    12 years ago

    Sometimes I wonder why people don't care about me...but then I remember that I don't give a fuck about them either!

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    • Anime7
      12 years ago

      I don't know who "them" are but I think you're cool. I like reading your comments.

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    You've been in her shoes before, thus you feel empathy towards her. It's great that you do, try to talk to her about how you went through the same thing. She is a potential friend.

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