Is it normal to feel sorry when u are not to blame

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he sends me mixed messages,he then acts like he dispises me in front of his friends,i'm gay,he's not (supposedly),i feel like he plays with me to raise his self esteem,and when i snap back something nasty,i feel so guilty about it....
i don't know,i'm so confused
???
something like this happened with one guy at work before and i still don't know even though he doesn't work there anymore
and one of the managers (one that likes me) once grabbed my hand and said ''everyone's making fun of you''
i don't undertan if she meant it or...???
i can't understand how to tell if he is my friend or not???
i even want to send him an e-mail like this:
i don't understand if u are my friend or just making fun of me.

if it is the latter,please don't,ok?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    So, you're gay, and you're talking to a guy who's bi-curious or just confused, and he treats you like shit because he can't make up his mind. Does that sound about right? Just drop him.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Forget about him, if he's not nice to you he's not important. Anyway, if you ignore him - he'll come running back to get your attention.

    FWIW I would never put anything to him in writing in case he passes it around to make more fun of you.

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    • erwcat
      12 years ago

      thanx for advice about not writing,cause i forgot about that possibility...
      he can send it to everyone...
      TNX

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