Is it normal to feel so sexually frustrated

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So from time to time, more often than I would like, I get incredibly sexually frustrated. There's the "God I haven't gotten laid recently." then there's this level of frustration. It gets so bad I might beat off 3-5+ times a day, be constantly irritable and on edge, distracted by female coworkers, fantasizing about some very violent and agrressive sex/sex acts including but not limited to heavy domination, humiliating a partner, extremely extremely rough sex, ripping clothes off etc. I'd say this happens two, three times a month when I'm not having sex regularly. It's never so bad as to make getting daily tasks done but it leaves me deeply insatiafied and irritable and unfocused as well as feeling slimy.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    My sexual interest is also cyclical.

    I've never been able to pin down why that is.

    The one thing that's certain about human sexuality is that's very complicated. There's stuff going on that we're consciously aware of, but also things deep down that seem to relate to the drives of our primitive ancestors.

    One of the facts about male sexuality which I find most fascinating and most clearly indicates this is how, if a man observes another man having sex with a woman, and he then has sex with her, his ejaculation is more forceful and his sperm count higher than normal. This seems to suggest that sex with multiple partners was common in our primitive ancestors and this physical reaction on the part of the male was more successful in producing offspring. Even though we're all civilized and monogamous (for the most part) these days, we're all animals, deep down.

    Your taste in porn is pretty extreme, but I don't think you should feel "slimy" about it unless you're also treating your sexual partners as objects to be used for your gratification. If jerking off to rough porn satisfies some need which means you don't feel the urge to treat women like that in real life (unless they want it), then that seems a positive thing to me.

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  • bobishere1234
    6 years ago

    Sounds normal to me. When your sexual needs aren't satisfied it can greatly affect your mood. And fantasizing about dominant sex, I mean... BDSM is very common these days.

    Only 1 thing is missing, how old are you ? If you are in the range, like, 14-25, masturbating 3-5+ times a day could be normal if you have a very high natural sex drive. But if you're much older, nah...

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