Is it normal to feel so low, depressed and suicidal

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I have been feeling so low and depressed recently. My life is so horrible. I live in an unhappy household, I'm battling a drug problem, I hate my place of work, I don't have a man, I don't have children, I don't drive, I'm not married, I'm still living at home with my parents and I'm always crying. I sometimes feel suicidal and it's like nobody understands. I was once on anti depressants but I was only on them for 8 months and then I was taken off them. I really miss having a man especially. Is this normal?

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Based on 61 votes (38 yes)
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  • kellstar79
    12 years ago

    Change things one step a time, your life will change and you will see that anything is possible. I was diagnosed with severe depression amongst other things and was in a bad place for 2 years but I'm slowly recovering although I never thought it could or would. Get off the drugs and try anti depressants again. I wish you all the best

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    • Princess1989
      12 years ago

      Thank u x

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    suck a cock and swallow. One of you will be happy, maybe both!

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  • ucipher8
    11 years ago

    Why do u Need a man? I feel like the greatest men in the world are only as great as the women (or partner) supporting them.

    In the same way that i am looking for my counterweight, you should be too. In the meantime, i have satiated my "need" for women, its not so much about the quantity as it is about the quality.

    If you don't move out, at least be productive with that money, seriously save and buy a place, or even a car, and a explore a passion in driving to encourage you

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  • blackalica
    12 years ago

    yeah, suicide doesn't help, i tried it and met billy maze...never again.

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  • XxSnowLotusxX
    12 years ago

    find things you love to do and eat healthy and things wil fall into place think on the brightside like how you are not starving to death or living in pain with cancer etc. or you are not fighting in the war or living with no legss.
    talk about it to people you truest and

    THE MOST IMPORTANT SEE A PSYCHIATRIST
    for your depression but this is normal a bunch of people suffer depression

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Smoking weed isnt gonna help so ignore that comment.

    Eat healthy and start exercising, looking good is a part of feeling good.

    Volunteer work is wonderful as well, do you like animals?

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    • Princess1989
      12 years ago

      Yes I love animals.

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      • peterr
        10 years ago

        Well suck my cock and pretend it is a hot dog!

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Get back to the doctor! Get a pet, get to some exercise classes with music etc for a laugh.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    How old are you OP?

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    • Princess1989
      12 years ago

      22

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  • Silentnight
    12 years ago

    I'd suggest trying to find a man, and or move out. Or if you can't go anywhere, try internet dating. May not be a lot of people's cup of tea but it's nice to get to know someone before you actually meet them. And it's nice to come home to messages and if you're like me thats stuck in your room most the time it'd probably suite you more. I'm probably the last person to be giving my advice but I'm just saying that as it worked for me once. Well a few times actually, back when I used to be happy.

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    • Princess1989
      12 years ago

      So you're not happy now then?

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      • Silentnight
        12 years ago

        Sorry about the extreme late reply, I hopped off this site coz it was bringing me down. But I'm happy now I'd say. Well happier. Hope ur doing better

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Lift your head up. Look outside. See the light. Summon that internal strength and make amends for all the small things that upset you. It starts within you.

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  • CaseyRoyce
    12 years ago

    start eating healthier
    move out
    try something different (join a community sports team or volunteer)
    smoke weed

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