Is it normal to feel so betrayed?

I wouldn't call a stranger possibly rejecting you a "betrayal". It's more like a slight and no it's not normal.

Why are you so affected by strangers? For all you know she could be a horrible human being.

man even though i posted that i cant believe this otherwolf has me in such a horrible light. i mean sure i could close my heart but would that make me like u otherwolf? cold and unfeeling? maybe the problem i have with the world is because its like you wolf, dont care what the aftershock caused by your actions are as long as you get to state your opinion. even if its brutal and harsh. god help me lady what if i was suicidal? your lack of tact could have been the final push to cause the end. for the sake of us all plz plz plz think before typing such awful words. or should i just s stfu so u can relate?

Yeah, it's normal to feel betrayed. Just find someone new. People like that aren't worthy of your time. If she really wanted you she would've responded. You probably aren't the only guy who that girl has done that to.

you sound like a creepy, stalker type of person. getting so attached so quickly, after just one conversation.
why should you expect something so quickly from someone you only just met anyway?
you shouldnt be expecting anything.
the girl probably knew you were a creepy stalker kinda guy so she gave you a wrong number.
she probably didnt feel safe enough to tell you that she wasnt interested.
she probably thought that you were going to rape and kill her if she said she wasnt interested.
try not getting so attached to people so quickly. take it slow and try to befriend them first before expecting anything else.
im sure that if they are interested in you, they will offer their number to you.

I think you have a sociopathic personality.

I could understand if it's something serious, but she promised nothing, so it is unfair for her if you feel betrayed by the fact that some person you met once has had a change of mind.

If a guy said that after drinking i'd probably do the same thing.
Sometimes out of fear of being abused at night with a guy who is physically stronger and particially drunk, if you said no to him he'd rip you apart.. so you give him your phone number so you can continue to exist..

she could have lost her phone or her phone charger. why dont you ring her you sound nice

otherwolf your hysterical. i pretty much say hey you kw what you could be right but you should have said it better and wht do you do? complain that im getting shitty with you. you lady have balls, but maybe you should....aw hell whats the point. enjoy your life lady. peace love and applesauce. lizzy thx for the back up.

aussiewolf, he has a point though. You don't need to start all this name calling. You don't know him, and you weren't there. You can't just call him a creeper like that. You don't know how the situation was. Were you in that club watching it happen? It's not nice. Obviously he's feeling pretty rejected and is looking for some advice. People don't need to right away attack him calling him a creepy stalker. What if you were in his position? I think you could've found a better choice in word's then a creepy stalker.

dont get all shirty with me because i told you the truth. it was you who was complaining that people lie to you all the time however when you get told the truth, you get all uppity. if you dont want to hear the truth then dont ask for it. you are creepy and waaaayyy too sensitive. maybe its time for you to harden the fuck up.....

If it's not a good match, it's a good thing that this happened so quickly. No wasting time on this girl. Sorry it happened how it did, and that you feel rejected, but you really hadn't invested anything but a night spent chatting with her. Perhaps she could have been more honest with you about her intentions, but I'm thinking that wouldn't have felt so great either. You'll find someone better. You sound like a nice guy.