Is it normal to feel sick when i know someone likes me?

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Is it normal to feel sick when someone tells me they like me or I just have a good feeling that they like me? I have a sickly feeling when anyone tells me they have feelings for me. My stomach hurts a lot and I just want to avoid that person. I just want them to stop talking to me and leave me alone. I get really really stressed out and it's hard to think about other thinks besides that crush. I feel really really sad when I have to tell them that they are just a friend or that I'm not in a good time to be with someone. It feels like that one person messes with the balance of my life. I have dated before, and been in one serious relationship. But I have always had this feeling when someone likes me or has feelings for me.

Does anyone else have this problem? I just feel like the only person who has this problem. Do I need help?

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  • Lia
    13 years ago

    Yes I know exactly how you feel, I get the same way sometimes. I'd say it's because you don't want to hurt that person, or have their happiness in your hands (especially since you don't actually like them back) and so you want to avoid them because you don't want to lead them on and want them to get over you.

    Just try be friends with them but don't let them make you uncomfortable if they keep bringing the subject up. And make sure you never go out with someone just because they like you (but you don't like them in return). Hope that was slightly helpful

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    • _5455
      13 years ago

      @Lia

      That's exactly how I feel! I didn't realize it until you put it in words. It helps. Thank you! :)

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  • Katie1995
    13 years ago

    I'm the same way I get really nervous and scared idk why!!

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    If its from an unattractive person, its normal. But if you feel that everytime no matter who tells it to you.... You problably are just plain crazy

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  • shy88girl
    13 years ago

    I don't like it when someone tells me he likes me. I try to avoid him, get all nervous. If it just comes out of the blue. I just can't relax!

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  • zaz
    12 years ago

    I feel the same way!!!!! I thought I was the only one!!!!

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  • colormehad
    13 years ago

    When it's a friend that I don't like who tells me something like that I have the same exact reaction, and I feel really angry at them that they're putting me in that awkward position even though I never have given them any indication that I feel the same way. I always feel bad that I react that way, but it's how I honestly feel.

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