Is it normal to feel sick for weeks?

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I was with the love of my life for a year and a half. She was into everything i did..and i loved it. I will skip to the end of the story though.

It happened that she one day out of the blue said, I want a break. Next day, she had another boyfriend. Told me she had cheated on me. I was so angry at what had happened..well...cant say..but..i got arrested.

Im out on bail now, but shes allready on her second relationship since we broke up 2 weeks ago. But heres where i want to say something:

I heard she first told all her friends that this guys penis was bigger than mine..and im not ashamed of my penis size..being 6&1/2 inches...thats not small in any way. Then i heard she had sex with him alot..broke up with him a week later and is dating and having sex with another guy allready.

This girl, was a good girl...used to be..she never did anything like this, ever. Out of the blue all of a sudden, she turned into a giant slut.

Now im left in utter heartbreak. I cant sleep at night, i have dreams of her. But worst of all, my stomach feels so sick all the time just thinking about it. and even when im not..it still hurts. I feel like my heart..physically hurts..I just sit around crying..

I only have three friends..all of them have jobs so we cant hang out much..which leaves...alone...no one to talk to..you dont understand though...this girl cried to me all the time begging with me to stay with her forever. This girl did everything she could to make me happy. And i always did tons of stuff for her. It was relationship bliss..I feel like something just snapped inside of me..i feel so sad hurt and depressed 24/7 now..
We basically lived together we were so close and we basically acted like a married couple. I dont understand...WHY WHY WHY...why did this happen..Ive tried making new friends..i cant...im at rock bottom..because i got arrested...my whole future is ruined...wont get into military..no police..nothing..this little story is only 1/8 of the whole thing.

I feel sick to my stomach constantly..its gotten so bad..im begging people to talk to me because im so lonely..someone please talk to me about this so i can feel better

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  • Rusty-Rider
    7 years ago

    Ain't love grand?
    Been there, done that.
    Only time can heal a broken heart.
    You need something like a new hobby to fill your spare time and meet some new people.
    Good luck.

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  • chick756
    12 years ago

    Wow,I'm so sorry man....only time can help you out...all I can say...be strong!

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  • metalreeper
    12 years ago

    well, i dont want her back..ive heard from friends that she is horing her self around..=[....its gonna be tough till i ever get another person to love me =[

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  • lillypoppy
    12 years ago

    it sucks and its going to keep sucking for sometime...whatever you do don't start drinking! or drugs im pretty sure you know your life will get worse..girls talk shit just like guys do i wouldn't worry about the penis thing espcecially since thats what you "heard" keep crying and when you can't cry anymore thats when most likely that girl is going to come crawling back

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  • aoife1987
    12 years ago

    :( Im sorry, that is a sucky situation. But yes I think its normal, especially if it was your first love. Life will go on eventually and you will find someone else even if that seems impossible right now

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