Is it normal to feel scare about beening pregnet?

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I just found out by a test strip that I am pregnet. I am both exsited but scared at the same time. I told my boyfriend that I am pregnet and he was soooooo happy and told a co-worker who I am close with that I am pregnet and she was happy as well. This wasn' t plan at all. I told my mom but I don't know if she is happy or mad or upset. I love my mom and she wishes that I would never get pregnet or marry him because of a stuped thing that happen 2 years ago. Im scared because I felt that she is going to abandon me even though she saids she is not going to. I am 22 years old. My mom ask me question like how are you going to raise it, how are go you going to support it? I don't want to give it away. My boyfriend is going to be there by myside all the way. I want to know if it's normal to be scare about beening pregent?

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  • qwerty246
    14 years ago | pl

    abortion

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    They've actually found scientific evidence now...sex causes pregnancy. Would you believe it? I'm also dumbfounded.

    Anyway, the fact that you can't even spell, "pregnant," makes one wonder how in the hell this baby will fare educationally.

    I suppose there's always welfare, cigarettes and cheese whiz.

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    • loverofbunnies
      14 years ago

      First thing SORRY FOR SPELLING PREGANAT WRONG. When I was righting this I didn't care about my spelling. Your the first to do so.

      Second: I already knew that sex causes babies and I did it out of love.

      Three: I don't believe in welfare and don't wish to be on it. I make enough money with my job as it is. Plus, I have family that are eager enough to help.

      Four: I DON'T SMOKE.

      And lastly: I don't like cheese crackers or "Whiz" it doesn't tast right to me.

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      • simba1
        14 years ago

        And she spelt it wrong again!!!

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      • [Old Memory]
        13 years ago

        I don't think you cared about spelling when you wrote that either...

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    • simba1
      14 years ago

      You are my kind of person. Straight to the point with a hint of sarcasm. LOVE IT!!!

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    • [Old Memory]
      14 years ago

      Actually, I personally know this person and I think her baby will turn out fine. I have never met a more kind and gentle person and although her writing annoys me, she is a good person. She doesn't smoke or party and she works hard at her job.

      She will be fine. However on your end, you went out of your way to bash a pregnant girl you don't and will never know. If you are that hard up to bash someone, than perhaps you should fix your own life first and stop bashing others to cover up your pain inside.

      You are truly a sad person.

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      • simba1
        14 years ago

        you need to take some of your own advice,Bud.

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        • [Old Memory]
          14 years ago

          Whatever

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      • simba1
        14 years ago

        I would hope you know her. You got her pregnant!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I FEEL SO BAD FOR THIS BABY!!!

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    • NopeNotNormal
      13 years ago

      Poor kid, right? The little beast's looks alone will be enough to cause grave concern. And serious gag reflex action. Not to mention how it will fare academically. Prob won't be able to spell his/her own name...ever. :(

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  • NocturnePonyFan
    11 years ago

    I really hope someone on here sees this and tries to adopt that poor baby, so at least it has a chance at a good upbringing by intelligent people!

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  • a215
    13 years ago

    dont bring this poor kid into the world. do yoursef and all of us a favor, your spelling and grammer is terrible.

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  • so_damn_unpretty
    13 years ago

    your fiance calls you fat... just so you know.

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  • aimeelouiseie
    13 years ago

    Ok if you can't spell pregnant or complete a sentance with out gramatical errors then you are not ready. Sorry.

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    • 1u5t
      13 years ago

      spell check was created for a reason, I can't believe she is even too stupid to use it! I bet she doesn't even know how to use it!!

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  • tygeronherbed
    14 years ago

    sad.....hopefully this apple will fall FAR from the tree.

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    • [Old Memory]
      14 years ago

      Like yours did, right?

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      • coolio75650932
        11 years ago

        sorry i know this joke/pun was horrible and insulting but i cant stop laughing lololololol

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      • [Old Memory]
        14 years ago

        You have lots of work to do. Insulting someone who is already from an effective family and is a high functioning person will not do anything for your situation and what you need to do.

        Face up to your responsibilities

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      • Jen118584
        14 years ago

        That was a really ineffective insult.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Bud's the father?

    Really look to your mom for support and listen to her advice.

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    • simba1
      14 years ago

      Yeah, I only just realised that BUDTHEWISE is the father too. That poor child.

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      • BigDickRick
        11 years ago

        Fuck you

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    • BigDickRick
      11 years ago

      Fuck you

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Yes - if you do not know how you are going to raise & support a child that is a bit scary. You can't just like the idea of being pregnant. You have to get real about it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      14 years ago

      Shit I know that. I am now excepting the fact that I am. I bonded with my mother for the day and she is happy. Thanks for the comment./

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  • 1u5t
    13 years ago

    abortion... you're too ugly! You should not reproduce & put more ugly people on this planet! There is plenty already!

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  • loverofbunnies
    14 years ago

    Please for one I don't want any negitivity on this page. I want good advise from people who do give a shit about this story. I love Bud and it was my choice to have this baby. I know he will be a GOOD father. I don't want any insults from people on this site I want NORMAL comments. But I am going to tell you this my family and my friends at work are all happy for me and all of them are supported for me. I wanted to add this information.

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    • [Old Memory]
      14 years ago

      Are you totally nuts?

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    • NocturnePonyFan
      11 years ago

      Translation: I only want advise from people who tell me what I want to hear.

      You know, for anyone who doesn't feel like reading all that.

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  • Heh?
    13 years ago

    Out of curiosity, I inputted "pregnet" into a search engine and the first link was to http://pregnet.com.au/.

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  • Divine.Infekt
    14 years ago

    Good luck with your new baby child.
    Im sure it will love you alot <3
    And yes it is very normal to be scared or nervous.
    A few times I thought I was pregnant, I was very scared. I didnt end up being pregnant though, thank god. Too young.
    But anyways, good luck =]

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    I wish you well. I completely understand your Mom's reservations about Bud. Most of the people on this site do. You should talk more to your Mom & think about his fitness as a father.

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    • tygeronherbed
      14 years ago

      seriously.

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      • [Old Memory]
        14 years ago

        Nice to see you being see the monitor over your nose. I would say butt the hell out but common sense elludes you.

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  • DoubleEntendre
    14 years ago

    Aside from the swathe of inflamatory remarks from some people, namely bud, I'll try and respond honestly.

    Firstly, yes, very normal to be scared about being pregnant, even moreso due to your current position. You are unmarried, lacking higher education, and wary support from your mother.

    If you haven't already, you need to talk with your mother and your boyfriend in the same room, because if you plan to keep this child, you need to make sure it grows up in a friendly and loving environment.

    To worry about how you are going to raise this child is not only normal, but necessary. If your fiance can support you and your child, all the better. In today's economy, it won't be easy if you aren't already established. Make sure that your child has the opportunities it deserves. A loving home, parental support, and the ability to go to school.

    Start saving for college now, because America has developed into a country where a college degree will yield you the resources and opportunities that you deserve. 40 years ago a high school diploma was enough, but the world has changed and the most important gift you can give to a child is the gift of education.

    Also, this is the internet, don't expect people to hold back insults and inflamatory remarks. Bud, you only look worse by constantly retaliating.

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  • hotchickie81
    14 years ago

    I think it's pretty normal to be scared about a pregnancy - especially when it's your first. I'm sure everytihng will work out fine and you guys will be really happy. I wish you the best of luck! :)

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    • loverofbunnies
      14 years ago

      Thank you for your input. I am really looking forward in having this baby. Thanks once again for your positive input.

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  • kia106
    14 years ago

    YES ITS NORMAL BUT BABYS ARE GIFTS

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    • loverofbunnies
      14 years ago

      I think that Babys are gifts as well. Thank you for your positive input.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    If I were you would run for the hills... concerning Bud. You could have no wore partner. IMO So better to have some support. Reach out to your mom. Listen to her & follow her advise. Save yourself the grief. IMO.

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    • [Old Memory]
      14 years ago

      *worse

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  • xino00
    14 years ago

    you should feel scared!

    because how the hell will you raise the child?
    have you finished education?
    how will your boyfriend support him,you, house and the baby?
    are you free to regularly attend to the child all the time? Because you have to keep waking up random times to feed the baby.
    do you have a job now?

    people don't plan these things and just become pregrant for nothing!

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    • [Old Memory]
      14 years ago

      I think she will be fine. She is a kind and caring person who cares too much for other and gets nothing but grief from the world. I, as her fiance, have always done my best to better her life and I am both going to college and working full time.

      I think she will be fine and I honestly think she needs this for her.

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  • Golden
    14 years ago

    As a woman, I hope I can help confirm, that the thought of pregnancy can be very terrifying! It is normal and common. I have a lot of friends who have had babies and they all expressed fear at some point. Whether it was fear of pain, abnormalities, finances, security, you name it, I'm sure it's been felt. I mean after all, you're going to carry and bring into the world a whole new human being! Just be sure to go to a doctor and confirm your pregnancy for sure and do what your OBGYN tells you (things like taking vitamins and any special provisions your certain case might pertain to). It is not anything to feel ashamed or alone in. I'm not even trying to be a mom yet (even though I want to someday) and I feel fear just with the idea! Hope this has helped a little Congratulations!

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  • simba1
    14 years ago

    Hi. It is totally normal to be scared and apprehensive. I have had 4 children. My first one, I felt exactly the same with. Your body is going through enormous hormonal changes,especially in the very early stages, and then your body has to change immensely to cope with the growing baby.With your first one, you never know what it will be like I really hope that your Mum and boyfriend continue to be supportive. Just try and relax, and enjoy the wonderful changes that are happening in your body. Take care

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    • loverofbunnies
      14 years ago

      Thank you very much for your positive input. I am touch by what you said and both my mom and my boyfriend are being 110%% supportive toward this who thing. Thanks for your comment and have a great life with your family ;)

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      • Synopsis
        14 years ago

        loverofbunnies, I hope everything works out for you and Bud. He is very intelligent, doesn't give up, and sure isn't afraid of much. Don't worry about what anyone else says, just go with your heart and believe what you want to believe, not what envious people do.

        Fear isn't a weakness, it's more a precaution, to enable you to deal with what responsibilities you may have later on.

        I wish you all the happiness in the world.

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