Is it normal to feel sad when my boyfriend asks...

me to tell him what I did with an important paper or item that I might have moved because we live together and the clutter drives me crazy, so I straiten up and try to keep things organized. I have always felt that I am pretty good at being organized.When I tell him I do not know where it is I would have to look for it, or that I am not sure if I remember seeing it, he insists that I must have moved it or done something with it!

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  • mudbleach

    im guiltily of this myself...although in my defense my wife does move my things all the time...what we did was i have an "AREA" this area is my clutter area she can touch it (computer desk in computer room) that way if i ever ask "did you touch xxxx" she says "check your desk" also if i leave paper outside of my desk area she knows were to leave it for me to find! :D

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  • BoredGuy

    it's true, men can "lose" their glassed while wearing them :P

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  • cookiesaregreat

    why does it say "men/woman do this and that, bla bla" i am a woman and i am really un-organized myself. no, not my boyfriend/husband/whatever. i am, and i don't feel bad about it. I do however hate it when someone moves something important and i can't find it anymore, probably the same way your boyfriend feels when you do that to his stuff.

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  • karmasAbich

    It's true.. I lose things all the time unless its a bit cluttered. I remember where I put thigs when they are everywhere.
    Most girls are just naturally more organized than most men.

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  • joelsmo

    Women do this all the time. They get frustrated because a paper is on the counter, and without even thinking about it moves it, without even thinking. You either need to remember where you put things, or make a place where you put everything so he knows where to get it. There is nothing more frustrating when you know someone has moved something then they deny it, especially if there are only 2 of you.

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  • BoredGuy

    glasses

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  • crazycow

    It's normal! Men are nightmares. My boyfriend always asks to be presented with things before he even tries to look for it. Advice: Remember where you put things and be ready to tell him when he asks. Women seem to have a knack for knowing where things are even if they don't move them so just try to be observant as well. He will appreciate it

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