Is it normal to feel sad about ex boyfriends who have moved on?

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Hi me and my boyfriend broke up about 4 months ago. we dated for 13 months and we were really close. it was a mutual breakup and we were friends after and he promised me and told me he never wanted to or would date my friends. then things changed and he dated one of the ppl he told me he didnt want to or wouldnt date. now everytime i see them it hurts so much cause they both told me they'd never do that to me. i was just wondering what is a good way to get over your friend dating your ex boyfriend? and stop feeling so sad and how do i not care that they are dating? i'm still really in love with him..

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  • flutterhigh
    12 years ago

    Sleep with his father.

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  • RealChick
    9 years ago

    I know why I dumped the guy/girl. Just because he found someone doesn't mean they won't dump him for simular reasons.
    But I don't get sad. My mommy always said to give my used toys to the less fortunate! Its like donating a really pretty jacket that you don't have room in your closet for. Then seeing someone else wear it. U kick yourself for getting rid of it but realistically you could find something better.

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  • Fedupmom
    12 years ago

    You only think you're still in love because you feel a pain in your heart over the betrayal. It's not love you're feeling. Love yourself. Don't sweat it. Move on!

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  • saltyballs
    12 years ago

    what's happening here is that you still think about what u had with him, and you have not yet been able to find someone better or someone who makes you feel good generally. the only solution is "time" ... it heals everything.

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    • flutterhigh
      12 years ago

      Except decapitation. Time doesn't heal decapitation.

      AIDS too. Fuckin AIDS.

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  • iamdope
    12 years ago

    I feel the same way ,only he's not dating one of my friends. But he has a girlfriend and now I have a boyfriend ,but when I see him in the hallway all Happy &Smiling I look up at my boyfriend and I just wanna RUN to my ex -
    I hate to feel like this and i'm jealous that my ex could just "move on"

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