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We broke up 4 months ago still I have days when I listen song that reminds me of him and start to cry because we are not together... Is it normal to still think about somebody who was so special but not with you for almost a half year now
You need to get rid of anything that reminds you of him. Time to get over him
Like the song says "Love the one you're with..." and you are not with anyone. So time to get over it because there is fantasy and reality. The fantasy it that you are afraid to move on and the reality is that whatever you thought you had, you did not. Wake up and smell the coffee - it’s a new day - enjoy your new life - and look for love within first - then you can find a true love out there somewhere. Trust me on that!
4 months isn't too bad, when you're into your 5th you should seek help. Adjustment Depression is just as serious as bipolar or Major Depression when it goes wrong!
To forget try get yourself busy with friends. avoid being alone. Is not that easy
It's normal, but even though you absolutely won't believe it right now, it'll pass. Keep your chin up!
I heard somewhere that it typically takes around 1/3rd of the amount of time the relationship lasted for to get over it. That has seemed to be the case for me for the most part. Of course that can be altered by talking to them again while you're trying to get over them, finding someone else quickly, and of course if they're your first love, you may never fully get over it.
The busier you keep yourself, the less you'll think about them or the less time you'll have free to think about them.
I'd say normal.
It took me 8 years to get over a man. That's bad OCD. I asked myself why he didn't love me.