Is it normal to feel repulsed by an ex?

When I think of my ex boyfriend I feel disgusted that I ever was with him! I was only 19 and was inexperienced and vulnerable and it was horrible. We never went out, he got fired from his job and he was in a bad crowd and from a not so nice background... Now I look back I don't even find him attractive AT ALL.
What on earth did I see in him? Is that normal? And how can I relieve the regret!?

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Based on 19 votes (17 yes)
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Comments ( 7 )
  • RoseIsabella

    Yes, yes...YES! A thousand times yes! Good for you for finally seeing the light. Now hopefully if you meet another piece of shit later down the road you'll think to yourself that this douche reminds you of your ex, and consequently you'll have nothing to do with him. Life is a learning experience, sounds like you learned a powerful lesson.
    :-)

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    • Bea123

      Thank you for being so sweet & understanding! You've actually made me feel a lot better :) live & learn aye! BW. X

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      • RoseIsabella

        (((Hugs))) Babycakes!
        ...and PAWS UP!!!
        :-)
        ♡☆♡☆♡☆

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  • Bigheart15

    It's perfectly normal, ex is ex for a reason. Don't let it effect you, things happen for a reason, going out with him would have given you a lesson that you don't even realise like you know not to make the same mistake again!. Good luck

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    • Bea123

      Thank you for commenting and being so lovely! You are right I know you are :) need to believe it all happens for a reason! Bw xx

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  • shuggy-chan

    Just move on

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  • Bigheart15

    Your welcome my lovely, glad I could help with some simple words. Xx

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