Is it normal to feel really jealous all the time?

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I really like this guy and he doesnt talk to me alot. Since he found out, he's been distant. He's is best friends with girls and I get jealous at that.
I cant help feeling jealous when he talks to other people, even if its guys.
He only has to smile at another person and Im jealous.
If he goes out with other people I get jealous.
If he's nice to others I get jealous.
I even get jealous if he friendly to older people who he'd never be in a relationship with, I still get very very jealous.
If I had my own way, he'd only talk to me. He's only be friends with me. And he wouldnt have any other friends.
I dont know why I am so jealous.
I've not felt this jealous about ANYONE before.

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  • Darkoil
    12 years ago

    Stop saying jealous you crazy bitch.

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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    You just want the attention they're getting, although you have no reason to be jealous.

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  • NoraBaker
    12 years ago

    I see two words in your future: restraining order.

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  • plunker
    11 years ago

    I think you're fairly normal. I've seen some of your other posts and things you've sent and to be fair I think most people have felt like that, just not very many feel like they can say anything. You actually sound pretty cute.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Let me guess, he's attractive?

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    • KissMe
      12 years ago

      He is gorgeous

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        So you like him for his looks mostly. You'll move on, you don't have a real connection to him.

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        • KissMe
          12 years ago

          He can make smile.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    It hurts but.... sometimes that's how things are. Others get what you want.

    What will happen? You'll eventually find someone else and he'll be a memory

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    i think you are confusing jealousy for love, it reminds me of fear, can you not work out what u are afraid of ?

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    • KissMe
      12 years ago

      Im afraid he will never feel the same way about me

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  • RoyalKnight
    12 years ago

    It's normal to exhibit jealousy, but your jealousy is extremely excessive. This jealousy you have is turning the like you have for this person into something that is hateful and ugly.

    When you like or have love for someone, you should want them to seek their own fulfillment without having to make them worry about how jealous you are of everything they do. It's a very selfish thing. You have to stop that or at least restrain yourself from acting on that jealousy.

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  • NoraBaker
    12 years ago

    Oh, I just saw two more: loony bin.

    Get a hold of yourself woman! That def ain't normal.

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  • kellstar79
    12 years ago

    You need help to deal with your jealousy issues! It isn't normal or good to be that jealous. Everyone has varying degrees of jealousy but yours is extreme!

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  • hopelessromantic06
    12 years ago

    Life is too short to always be jealous! You need to value yourself more and be happy on your own. If I were a guy and found out you liked me I'd be distant also. You come off as needy. If you ever get the chance to date him he is going to talk to people. If he's a very friendly guy and talks to everyone and comes off as flirty ...well girl you need to just forget about him bc his personality will drive you even more crazy jealous while your actually with him! I

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  • bigboobs****
    12 years ago

    why waste your time over that girl life is to little for that pitty stuff

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