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I get moody if there is too long of a gap between my husband and I having sex... I get to the point where I'm actually depressed, and that is concerning I me.
Yassss! It makes you feel like dude is she mad at me ? Are we ok ? Did I like royally fuck up or some shit!
Some people do just have differing libidos. My bf has much less of one than I do, mostly due to sexual problems in his past (had to get surgery for a BAD skin bridge that made it painful) but we work on it, and things have consistently gotten better.
If every other aspect of the relationship is good, that's not necessarily a deal breaker. And at 3 times a week you definitely have us beat. :P
Shit I feel the same way when my girlfriend goes ages with out giving me the goods, even when I initiate but then I get shut down. She doesn't understand that she's the only one that can provide me with what I want unless I cheat which I won't do. It's fucking annoying. This month alone we have only had sex once I feel like I can't be asked to even try with her anymore and have been thinking a while about ending it....
Fuck it lets ditch them and me and you hook up!
😱 I get it more than that! Lol wow, that sucks.... I'd be finding someone who can keep up.
Normally I do but recently I just can't be a asked to pursue it anymore, feels like I'm constantly chasing and I'm starting to feel like I'm a dick because I'm the one to constantly bring it up and I feel like the bad guy for wanting some simple human contact from the one person that can provide it. And I feel like she can just take or leave it and is fine either way.
Hate to jump on the "trying to help you too" train, but have things always been like this or is this a more recent occurance? Because if it's always been difficult, its possible you guys just have a very differing libido... but I'd hope if so you can work out some sort of middle ground, maybe there's something that can be done to help her be in the mood.
If it wasn't like this in the beginning, there must be a reason. Whether it's that she's losing interest or having some other problems, some stresses or health issues that would have led to such a drop.
At any rate, that's something that needs to be worked out. Sex isn't the be all end all in a relationship but if it's causing you this much distress... well... they say it's not important til you're not having it, and you do deserve to feel fulfilled in your relationship.
Have u talked to her about it? Maybe tried asking by doing something sweet for her? It doesn't always have to be expensive, just write her a note. Or just give her a massage, but rub her butt a lot. Girls love that. And sloppy kisses. Idk what kind of girl u like, but be a little aggressive. Let ur testoseron shine
Trust me i do it all. But doesn't make much of a difference. Anyway how did this become about me? Lol
If you have sex 7 times per year or less, it's time to sleep in a separate bedroom. This qualifies as a sexless marriage. Your wife is likely a closeted lesbian or rape victim who has suppressed her past to the point that no one will ever know about it. You will never be more than a brother to her. She will likely use the hope - despair - hope cycle to try to get children off of you if she thinks you will leave her.
Keep a stack of porn under your new bed and masturbate frequently. You'll feel better. Commitment can be slow to die. After a few months, a bit of counseling can help you with that.
I was in a sexless marriage, and the quiet desperation was unrelenting. Eventually, it destroys your health. You have got to take care of yourself first.
Bc u get less sex than I do. I feel bad for complaining bc I have a 3 times a week rule. And usually he follows it. I though I was being sex deprived, I guess I'm just a nympho... I just wanna help lol