Is it normal to feel nothing when going out with someone?

I have been going out with several girls, and everytime I go out with them alone, I don't feel anything, just emptyness, even when we kiss, it's boring, even the first kiss tasted, plain.

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Based on 32 votes (21 yes)
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  • katkev2003

    I don't think you should go out with these girls again, because it's not fair to them if you feel nothing for them.

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  • Maya05

    Maybe you just don't like being intimate or physical with girls or people in general. Nothing wrong with that it's just how you are (if you are in fact this way)It's best not to force yourself to be with people who want normal physical intimacy like kissing.

    I used to be in a relationship like that and it was horrible. I felt nothing when we kissed or cuddled or anything. Eventually being intimate began to annoy me because she always wanted to be close to me and touching me. I eventually broke up with her and never have regretted it since. (I also broke up with her because she was also sorta crazy, but that's a different story.)

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  • little_freak

    Most people are rather dull, that's a general fact, not only applicable for the girls you date. So yes, it's normal to feel that way so far. Keep it up though, you may come across someone different.

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    Start dating men.

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  • Energy

    I only voted "yes" because I feel the same way so far. I don't think it's pretty normal overall though.

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  • Ldizzy1234

    Then maybe they're really not what you're looking for.

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  • CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin

    mmmmmmmmm ahhhhhhhhhhh fabulous hahaha idk dude are you like on the other team or something; perhaps you could be depressed about something, depression tends to mess around with our motivation

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  • prasatko

    Why do you go out with them? I do not understand what could be the motivation to go out with them...
    (I mean it can be normal to feel emptiness or boredom or to feel nothing in these situations but it seems absurd to get into these situations voluntarily and for no reason. That is why I am asking about the reason for your involvement in those relationships.)

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