Is it normal to feel loved on moment and not the next?

Well when I am with my boyfriend I feel so much love and it's always extremely well when we are together. When we are apart most of the time we both feel we are not loved. Especially me, I tend to feel unloved when we are apart. I wonder why, any ideas on that?

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  • I read somewhere once that if you love someone when you're with them and feel unloved when you're apart then it's not truly love it's more of infatuation. But this is just a theory and is not always true! I've been in the same situation. I was with a guy for two years and often felt just like that! And when we broke up I realized that I wasn't really in love with him. It was more of an infatuation with the idea of him. So if I were you I would spend some time thinking about that :)

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  • icanhascheezburger

    Going to assume you two are in love with each other and just deeply emotionally attached to each other and when you're not around each other it feels like there's a piece of you that's missing; I've been there, I know how it feels, still do.

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  • CinnamonToast

    If you feel unloved when you're not around each other, be around each other more. Simple problem, simple solution. Or, simply stated solution; as always it'll turn out to be easier said than done.

    Just make more time for each other. If you're able, move in together.

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