Is it normal to feel love anxiety?

I broke up with ny boyfriend three months ago and now I fear I will not find love ever again. I am 18 and starting university this year, I already know I have lots of chances of meeting new people... But deep inside I know I will end up hanging up with just a closed group of female classmates. I hardly ever talk to boys, and I am not even prone to fall in love ( if I do, the Boy never likes me back). Finding somebody seems almost impossible to me and I worry I will be utterly alone... At least for a long time.

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Based on 40 votes (33 yes)
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  • Corleone

    It's normal you feel that way, though it's not rational. You're starting university this year. You'll get to meet a lot more people, so it's likely that you'll meet someone who suits you better than your ex.

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  • It is normal to feel that way, breakups are hell.

    But you have about sixty more years to go in your life, the odds are in your favour. Now, if you'd said you were 40, instead of 18, I'd be better able to sympathize with your fear. Don't panic yet. Instead of thinking about the fact that you are alone, try to get excited about being single - EMBRACE your single youthfulness; you only get to experience it once in a lifetime, make it count. ;)

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  • Avant-Garde

    Don't worry, you'll find someone eventually. Just give yourself some time to heal from your last relationship before you start looking again.

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