Is it normal to feel like your not really participating in your life?

I'm just not really feeling it ATM, I wake up go to uni and work but I feel like ab empty shell waiting for my life to start. I'm 24 have never had a boy friend I still live at home and I have few friends. If you wdre to meet me in real life you would think I was a bubbly happy person, but inside I wonder if anybody will ever love me.

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  • crazyladii

    Go out and do some living; Life is what you make of it. not to mention love is like the dmv grab a number you'll be called eventually just believe and dont rush.

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  • ariannel

    Sounds like you have the very definition of what a crush is. Obsessive romantic fixation on a highly idealized individual.

    We've all been there. Worry not. You're not weird or abnormal.

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  • LagX

    Ideed very normal. You need to play online games. That way even if you are bored in this life, your online life will be very entertaining.

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  • Seven

    I am in a different situation but equally feel like I have no control over my life. The key is that no matter how much people try to put you down, and no matter how bad you feel, like you will never get married or will be stuck doing the same boring things your whole life, all you need to remember is that you are strong enough to overcome all of it. If you want a different life you need to get out and do things to change it. Got to a club, meet someone, do whatever you can with what you got, and keep your eyes open. Life gives us all funny little opportunities every day, like my friend, who played football al day, but he broke his leg, and now he plays WAY to much video games. He applied to a game design school instead of going on a football scholarship, which he could have easily gotten. It changed his life and made him realize that he loved something more than football.

    You need to keep your eyes opened for every opportunity like thins, and you will discover ways that your life is wonderful and beautifull, and people will see your confidence go up, and they will come to you, and they will love you. You just need to keep trying and work to make your life the way you want it to be!

    - Seven

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  • Rainy-Day

    Normal. Some people's lives just don't start out as fast as others. But it's absolutely ok in this modern day and age. So we late-bloomers don't get married until we're in our 30's, so what? Gives us enough time to really find Mr. Right :D

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  • Justdreaming

    I've had this happen, I think it's because when I'm alone I focus more on what's in my mind, so then I act differently. We're not our thoughts.

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  • almostunreadable

    Normal!

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