Is it normal to feel like your never good enough?

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It bothers me that in my group of friends everyone always wants to be around this one girl. Most of the guys like her and she is always the center of attention. I feel like I'm always tagging along when I hang with her. Then I get nervous and can't be myself. What does she have that I don't? I'm pretty confident around my friends but everyone seems to like her so much more. I started to seperate myself from them a little until I figure out how to deal with it. I'm sick of being the tag along. What should I do?

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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    She's her and you're you. You're never going to be her, so just be yourself. Maybe your role in the group isn't the role of the "leader." There's nothing wrong with that unless you aren't okay with that. Disconnecting from the group isn't going to make the situation any better. It's just going to make you more distant from the group.

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    • Browniegirl3
      12 years ago

      Ya your right. I don't always have to be the leader or the one in the center of attention. I'm so used to taking a leadership role that it's weird to be the one who follows. I'm not saying that I'll do everything that they do but I'll try to be more flexible and go with the flow. Thank you!

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