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I'm trying to masturbate because I haven't for a long time, and I need to de-stress and lessen my depression and anxiety for a few seconds.
But everytime I get started I feel like I'm molesting myself! It's weird and I can't continue to masturbate, then I feel even worse than before.
If you're seriously depressed and anxious, sex in any form is likely to be difficult or a complete failure.
The lump of jelly-like stuff between your ears is your biggest sexual organ. If it's full of negative thoughts swirling around, there's not much room for anything else, and you're not going to be able to relax and focus on the present moment and the physical sensations of what you're doing to yourself.
Masturbation can help you relax and reduce stress, but it sounds like you need to focus on addressing the causes of your depression and anxiety.
That makes sense, I even cry after I masturbate.
Alot of things cause it too many to list.
Tried therapist before deep down they don't give a shit. It's just a job that pays well for them. My friends don't want to be my friends if I ask them for support. And I don't want to ruin any other friendships.