Is it normal to feel like this when you have a significant other?

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I didnt know how to title it so follow the story more. Im so frustrated about this. Ive never had a group of close friends I can count on but Ive met this guy who I consider now as like a best friend even tho we're seeing other right now; he accepts me and I feel like I can do whatever around him, thats the best feeling in the world. It feels like finally I have someone who I can do what I want with because we have things in common. However, sometimes like right now I dont want to hang out with him like Im bored of always going out with him but what can I do hes the person right now I have who is always willin to hang out with me and go anywhere. But I wanna go out with "friends" which I dont have any, well I do but gah theyre just not my cup of tea you know they wont wanna do what I feel like doing or I dont feel comfortable around some of them like I do w the guy. So Im just stuck in the hole, I cant say "no we cant hang out today cause Im goin out with friends" because I dont have any! So i have no choice to hang out with him and Im usually bored, frustrated which turns into an attitude which makes the whole time a bad time. So how can I not hang out w him when i dont have anybody else to hang out with, HELP!

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  • trustno177
    11 years ago

    Who are you ? Fake

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  • weirdppl
    12 years ago

    Spending too long with someone can cause friction, go out and make more friends and socialise with them too!

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  • Wierdmyself
    12 years ago

    Yea find something to do for yourself. You'll find yourself having fun with him, before long. Time apart makes the heart grow fonder you know!!!

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  • cipher
    12 years ago

    You cannot eat the cake the keep it too. It is very likely that your friend has understood that he is your only friend. Given that he wants to hangout with you so often, maybe he does not have other friends too and you maybe you are his only friend too. I think it is normal if you need some away time once in a while. Not sure if you still studying, but you could come up with some valid excuse.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I hate when people say "significant other" reminds me too much of a jackass Youtuber that constantly says it.

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