Is it normal to feel like this?

I am an 18 year old male. I have a friend who is a 19 year old male.
I can't help but hold on because I feel like it could become something more than friendship.
He doesnt act straight when he claims to be. Hes known all along that I like him too. Yet, hes spent the night multiple times and we shared a bed, we played strip poker together once, and I give him massages a lot. I've even reaffirmed my feelings for him verbally and he wasnt creeped out or anything.

But I am confused. He often makes plans with me then makes up an excuse on why he cant do something. He says he will come over on a certain day, then on that day I wont hear from him until the next morning and he will have some excuse as to why he couldnt. Its frustrating because I don't know if he is lying or telling the truth.
He also will just disappear for days at a time and ignore all my calls, then randomly text me with some bs excuse as to why he wasnt answering.
Another oddity is that theres been about 3 times where he has gotten mad because I "wont give up" on him and keep pushing him. Yet, the things that I did to make him uncomfortable, he made no effort to stop or remove himself from.

Its been two days since I heard from him and hes been ignoring my calls and texts. This isnt the first time this has happened.

Whats his deal? Is this normal?