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i am 17 years old and i hav a crush on a dude(he is 14years old)...is it normal to hav the urge to make a move when ther is a huge age difference?
Again, reverse the genders, and the age difference makes the guy a pedophile...
If you get together that would mean in a year you will be 18 and he will be 15 . He will be a child in the eyes of society and the law and you well be a adult . Legally and morally it would make you a pervert and you could leave your self open to a sex crime charge and spending the rest of your life as a registered sex of offender . After your both adults 3 yrs isn't a big thing before 18 it is , that's why there are laws about it . Lots of places have wiggle room to make exceptions for kids that are older than their years and parents can give consent for marriage or a judge can if very young ( at least in the USA ) . If he's mature , go for it but be aware of what you are risking if someone brings the law down on you.
You are one year away from being a legal adult. He has only been an official teenager for a year. Just sayin.
Well, that isn't so bad. It's only by three year and you're both teenagers still. I'm making the assumption that he is a freshmen and you are a senior in high school. I'm going to say, as long as you don't mind the immaturity of the early high school mind, it's okay.
It's understandable, and happens to most people... but probably not a good idea at this stage. It's frowned upon because he hasn't hit the big acceptable *16* yet. You can tell him sure, but in the eyes of most people it would be best if you left any sexual/romantic relations till a little later.
It's ok, but society tends to say its wrong. I think 4 years is the biggest acceptable age gap.