Is it normal to feel like people hate/are annoyed by you.

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I tend to think that people hate me or at least annoyed by me, I don't know since I'm autistic because while everyone apparently likes me because of my nice personality, but one of my friends have noted that I lack social cues at times(coming in during conversations, being blunt)and I feel like sometimes people are generally annoyed by my presence(which is why I tend to be surprise that plenty of people like me)but I can't help but get this feeling of people trying to get away from me as their talking to me(tone, body language)and if its because of this particular trait which I try hard to put off but it keeps coming up again, I wish I could honestly shake these feelings off, doesn't help that I'm naturally socially awkward and tending to know not how to start a conversation

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  • postmanlover
    8 years ago

    I have that problem too. if i act like myself people will get mad at me and say im annoying,rude, etc. even thou i love people, don't want to hurt them,so i have to hold back. and be fake in reality, if i want to get through the day.it kind of sucks but thats jsut how society works, there are rules and some autistic people just dont get them natrualy but it can be learned. its like real life is a movie that were acting in.just on here i act like my normal self, and it' annoying people.

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    • Short4Words
      8 years ago

      your audacious love for postmen and it somehow being linked to zelda is a bit hard to digest, even for some of the stranger folks but you're only pissing off the crabby people anyway, and in that case it's funny.

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      • postmanlover
        8 years ago

        Oh, that makes me feel better :) thank you.

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    • wdelinois
      8 years ago

      The having to be fake in reality and loving everyone is what I can definitely relate to,I deal with it pretty much every single day, especially since I do it to not hurt anyone,by the way I'm sorry you feel that way.

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      • postmanlover
        8 years ago

        Sorry for you too. but I think you have a kind heart, and that's what matters most. If you are not very social that's ok. I think people will understand by your actions, and thoughts, that you are a good person.

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