Is it normal to feel like no one understands you?
I always feel like I have no one to share similar thoughts to. It's kind of depressing when you need someone to tell your feelings too. Am I crazy or do I just have a different mindset?
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I always feel like I have no one to share similar thoughts to. It's kind of depressing when you need someone to tell your feelings too. Am I crazy or do I just have a different mindset?
I guess it really depends on what sort of people you have around you.
Everybody in high school is together because of geographic location and age, nothing more. Those are certainly not the criteria upon which one should hope to build a lasting friendship.
On the other hand, if you belong to a base jumping club or a knitting club, there is a pretty good chance that you will have a lot of like minded people around you.
So, it comes down to your choosing the type of people you want to hang out with and doing so. Those people will probably "get you".
There are definitely people out there who get you but they are rare in my experience. It also helps if you try to be the closest thing to the real deal because if you try to be someone else or come off as something you're not then people are never going to see you for who you really are.
Well no one understand me because I don't understand myself,I don't know me,I just know about my depressing life and fake friends.
So do you understand yourself
Most of our population is stupid and worthless, so don't seek validation from the unintelligent.
This is a very common syndrome. Feelings of insecurity are often the root cause. Absence of developed communication skills often contribute, as well.
You would likely benefit from counseling - to identify why you believe no one understands you. It's possible people DO understand you, but don't have the coping skills to interface with you in a comfortable way.
There's no shame in seeking help. We all need it once in awhile.
Good Luck!