Is it normal to feel like i'm going to be the rebound? comment please

Hold tight, this may get confusing.
So I have two best friends, one male (let's call him Chad) and the other is female (we'll call her Nicky).
*Chad is a funny guy, but he can be a dick at times and a lot of people think he may be a homosexual, because he does say and do things that are very risky to just call 'playing around'.
*Nicky and I are pratically one and the same, she's just a bit quieter and prettier in my honest opinion.

~So let's start with the story~

I like Chad a lot, and have for a while, but he's also like a brother to me. Two weeks ago, I told him how I felt even though he openly admitted (to her at that) to liking Nicky the week prior.
(He told me I was more like a sister to him, and he couldn't feel the same way.)

Last week, Chad got mad at Nicky and I for something I did, and he apologized for being mad. I apologized to him as well, and him and I on good terms. Nicky and him...well, that's a completely different story. Nicky won't bother talking about what happened, and if he's mentioned she changes the subject.

So now Chad and I are texting and talking like we normally would, but on Monday he told me through text something along the lines of "You two text a lot alike" and I got to thinking...

Maybe it's just me, but I feel like I might be his rebound or that it'll eventually come to that. What do you think? Am I crazy to think this? Am I getting ahead of myself? Should I really bother considering this?

*Please don't think I'm a terrible person if you caught it. I did tell Chad how I felt even after he admitted to liking Nicky, but I told him it was nothing, and I just wanted to get it off my chest, that I wasn't trying to mess anything up, and I didn't expect him to feel the same for me.

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  • Jennyfromtheblock82

    I think you are right, maybe over analyzing but you should always go with your gut. The thing that i dont like about the situation is that its like your are his second choice, and that isnt fair to you! You should be someones first choice but if you are ok with that, that is all that matters. I could be wrong about the #2! you are not a bad person relationships are very confusing and no one wants to get hurt. Tell me this.. Did you get them mad at eachother on purpose? If so its ok im not judgemental the heart wants what the heart wants:)

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    • Dreams

      It wasn't intentional. He was...taken aback by something nice we tried to do.

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  • HeedlessLove

    If you think you two are extremely alike and he said he didn't like you before then maybe. But don't assume anything right now.

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  • sac66064

    You are crazy to think this. You are getting way ahead of yourself. You are reading into this way too much. You came to the conlcusion that you will be (or already are) his rebound from a simple observation that the two of you text alike. That is over analyzing if I have ever heard it. calm down.

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