Is it normal to feel like i'll never find someone who'll understand me

I remember, back when I was in high school, I didn't give much thought about what girls, or any person for that matter, where about; especially when it came to relationships. My main motivation for getting with someone was centered around appearances. Now that I've learned more about myself, what my world views are, what I like, what I don't like, my spiritual side, etc. I seem to have a hard time finding a woman who shares, and understands, these things with me. I've noticed that i perceive the world in a different manner then most people. For example, I find that physical possessions are useless, in a sense that it won't matter what I have/had when I'm dead. I think that I, or rather we, should focus on the now, and expand our understanding of the outer, as well as the the inner, world. All the girls I've met to this day aren't concerned with these things. They are focused on, what I find, the little things in life, style of clothes, makeup, social status, money, etc. I don't know guys, i think I'm the minority when it comes to this way of thinking, but is it normal? Is it normal to think that i will never find a woman who will understand me?

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Based on 25 votes (21 yes)
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  • slings_and_arrows

    It won't matter about your inner world either once you are dead. I think most intelligent people feel the same way you do. If you went to somewhere where there are intelligent girls like an open lecture, (literary) book club, foreign language meet up...you will find girls who are interested in learning and improving their inner world as you say. But if you're hoping for this in some small town at the local bowling alley, then that's prob not gonna happen.

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  • derpyderp

    There are girls out there who aren't focused on clothes, makeup, social status & money. Beautiful, great girls too!

    They're not as easy to find as the regular type but nothing good is easy & nothing easy is good. Keep looking...

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  • WhiteStallion

    You're looking for a spiritual, unmaterialistic kind of girl and she's very possible, may be right around the corner. I feel one person cannot or hasn't understood the whole of who I am but rather those close to me understand different parts of me. I'm not concerned with my partner understanding me but accepting and inspiring me instead.

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  • reminiscent

    I dont think there are a lot of people with your views...however there are some....given the amount of people on this planet there are some who will share your same views.
    it might be hard where you live...have you tried online places to help locate people with the same views?

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