Is it normal to feel like i have no friends?

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I recently have had feelings of having no friends. As I grew up my older brother would say things like you have no friend. I knew that it wasn't true because in shcool I always had friends to eat lunch with and hang out with (I didn't hang out with friends alot).

As I graduated from high school and I had my open house I expected to have alot of my friends over. I only had three friends come (not incuding family and family freinds). I mean people who I wanted to hang out with. This made me feel like my brother was right and i had no friends.

Now I go to a local community college with a pop. of 5,000. It seems in every class I meet someone nice and we become friends, but as the semester ends we never see eachother again. When things like christmas break comes along I call old friends from high school and want to hang out, but it still seems like I spend alot of time sitting at home, and it's always me calling them to get together. I would like it if someone called me to hang out that would make me feel like they want to hang out with me.

Is it normal?

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  • jamiibabyy
    14 years ago

    Don't trip....I have the same feeling....but I just realized that it doesn't matter how many friends you have.....it's the quality of the friends you do have that matter

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  • Lil-wayne
    13 years ago

    Maybe they also sit and wait for u to call them ... If everybody has that mind set. No1 gna have fwendz. And u r fwendz wif sum1 coz u have sumthn in common. Or u share a hobby. Or u just enjoy their chat company. Or whom u would do random stuff wif . Find that sumthn u would do wif a fwend. :)

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  • sleepingowl
    13 years ago

    NO ONE HAS FRIENDS.
    They're all robots, cept you

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  • BugzBunnae
    14 years ago

    Try not to focus on what you don't have and focus on what you do have. And don't be so negative. If it feels like you have no friends, get some! There ARE nice people out there (Like me :P) that are willing to be a friend to you. And don't listen to your brother, its comments like that that brings you down when you need to be picked up! Be confident and be friendly. Be the first one to say hi! then people would say it back to you!

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