Is it normal to feel like his last choice ?

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I would sleep over at my bfs house for a year and about 1 month ago I talk to my bf about moving inn together on our own . He said give me 2 months to let my patents know , i agree on that but a month went by and he wouldn't talk to them , not only that we would go buy our house things and he would tell me don't say a word about this to my parents. I would ask hem why wont you tell hem about you moving out ? Hes 23 and I totally felt like a wasn't he's priority. Is it Normal or Im wrong ?

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  • cammers
    12 years ago

    omg im kinda having the same problem about the whole bf not tell his parents about us moving in together and hes almost 24 yrs old and about to graduate college in may and told me he didnt want to upset his mom. i was like okay... so im not really even talking to him about it anymore im just gonna wait and see if he does what he says hes gonna do tell them after he graduates guys these days i swear lol im glad to find someone who i can kinda relate to :]

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    So because the guy obviously is having doubts of getting his own place (which is a big step in someones life) he is an asshole, she should dump him, etc?

    We all know that if this was a guy saying his girlfriend won't move in to him, that instead of saying she's the problem, you'd say he's the problem, and so many stories have been like that with the responses I just mentioned.

    But hey, who gives a fuck if he's not ready to get his own place, right?

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  • iEatZombies_
    12 years ago

    There's probably a lot more to his situation with his parents. Family affairs can be very tricky, and 23 is pretty young. He probably needs a little more time to figure out how to go about it. A year isn't all that long when it comes to decisions like that. It's more of a business deal when it comes to moving than it is an emotional endeavor. He likely just wants to get it right. It sounds like he really cares about you and your well being. Just wants to make sure everything is gonna be okay. That he can provide before he crosses a line with his parents.

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  • RidingSheepOnClouds
    12 years ago

    Eer think that he was feeling pressured into it?

    Great grammar, by the way.

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    • RidingSheepOnClouds
      12 years ago

      *ever

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  • Jazminvane9
    12 years ago

    Well were both 23

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  • Its_Called_Love
    12 years ago

    Wait... I'm getting the feeling your REALLY young...

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    The real problem is that once you move out you can never really settle back in with your parents again!

    You both need to think about this!!!

    You're still in the loved up stage but if you move in together and burn this relationship out very quickly then what's he to do. Going home again seems like failure and parents rules seem silly once you return home.

    Do not rush into this - either of you.

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  • Jazminvane9
    12 years ago

    We been dating for 6 yrs now

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  • KHawk
    12 years ago

    I'm in the same situation, kind of.
    And obviously other people are too. So unfortunately I think it's normal.

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  • misslonergirl
    12 years ago

    Sit him down and have a serious talk about it. Tell him how u feel. Maybe he just isn't completely ready to move out or he hasn't completely processed it yet.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I have a dream!

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  • Waffle-Don't-Die
    12 years ago

    He's a fucking bitch dump him and ...idk what's next but dump him

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