Is it normal to feel like a guy doesn't bother to talk to me...

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because I've said some pretty stupid things to him, although a lot of the time he seemed so nervous around me. I know I'm odd but some reason I won't get this thought out of my head. I know I need to get over it, but it basically won't leave especially on the days that I'm feeling down. I know it's stupid to think this too. If this was true, what an asshole then.

I'm truely a happy person.

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  • qtpie
    12 years ago

    He likes you...

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  • LIEWM
    12 years ago

    Normal, but try and focus on those who do have time for you.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    I've felt this way before. There's this one guy from my work who I always get nervous around whenever I see him. He's really cute, but I get the sense that he thinks I'm a bimbo. I said some pretty dumb things while in his company. Yet, I noticed how he kinda just disappeared one day. I feel like he avoids me like the plague now. I honestly haven't seen the guy in months.

    In your case, maybe the guy you speak of is already seeing someone. Or it could just be paranoia. When you really like a guy, you sometimes worry that he doesn't like you back, so you read into every situation you have with him. Every little thing he does, every move he makes, you look into. You always think that theres something to decipher in his words. But in reality, theres nothing behind what hes saying. You're just letting your mind take you away.

    When you're finally finished reading into things, you have a shit load of reasons why you think he doesn't like you. Its normal. You could be turning a normal scene where he really couldn't care less, into something bigger than it really is. It can go both ways, really. You could think he hates you when he doesn't, or you could think he absolutely adores you when he just sees you as anybody else. Its gonna eat you inside if you think too hard into it.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    if he doesn't bother to talk to you... you have your answer.

    it doesn't mean something is wrong with you.
    it just means you're not the right person for him
    and he's not the right person for you

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