Is it normal to feel like a douche

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Is it normal that i feel like a douche when i talk about girls with my a friend who is a girl?

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  • trollx1
    11 years ago

    kick her anus

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    • Store210
      11 years ago

      Why?

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  • x1frosty16
    11 years ago

    Maby it's because you are lol ;) jk

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Sometimes I feel like a douche but I usually just take a big shit.

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    • shadow21
      11 years ago

      Haha! Best fucking response!

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    • Store210
      11 years ago

      i see your username fits perfectly

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    Don't feel like a douche, but unless she is okay with it, I wouldn't keep doing it. Girls don't typically want to talk about girls just like guys don't typically want to talk about guys.

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    • Store210
      11 years ago

      I try my best to keep away from the subject, but sometimes i can`t mostly because i have had a wierd dream including another female, but i have never had a wet dream, so not in that way

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      • KeddersPrincess
        11 years ago

        Well, if you have other guy friends, I'm sure they wouldn't mind talking about girls. And maybe, depending upon the girl, she may not mind talking about other girls either. I would just be catious about it:)

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        • Store210
          11 years ago

          I have two friends, one is female and the other is a male, i find that the female is more understanding and she knows me better, but i usualy talk to the male about females.
          My formal language is to not offend, or give away any details about my friends

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  • Ldizzy1234
    11 years ago

    I have a guy friend who talks to me about girls all the time. No big deal. Its not like we're dating.

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    • Store210
      11 years ago

      Its different for everyt person

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Lolz I know exactly how you feel. One of my really good friends (we will call her Amy, cause that's her name) and I have been friends since we were children. We are still friends today, and have never thought about anything romantic or sexual together, but I do admit that she grew into an absolutely GORGEOUS woman!

    When I talk to Amy about girls, and my dating life I always find myself comparing these girls to her. I don't know why I do this but it makes me feel kinda douchy as well!

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    • Store210
      11 years ago

      I somehow feel like were bros now

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      • Captain_Kegstand
        11 years ago

        lolz nice,the "I have this really hot friend that I judge women against" club is now official (need to think of a better name for it though)

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        • Store210
          11 years ago

          IHTRHFTIJWA, thay may be a bad shortening, lest call it the not-comparing club

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          • Captain_Kegstand
            11 years ago

            deal, your name sticks.

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            • Store210
              11 years ago

              then its decided
              (when i said this i aotomaticly said it in a british voice)

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  • jondoerandom
    11 years ago

    errr.. what?

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    • Store210
      11 years ago

      I feel like i am a bad person when i talk to females about other females

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      • jondoerandom
        11 years ago

        Than maybe you shouldn't? :) or try to find a way of saying things that doesn't offend anyone.

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        • Store210
          11 years ago

          I don`t say anything mean, or comparingson at all, but still i feel like the female i am talking to takes it that way

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          • jondoerandom
            11 years ago

            Well, I don't know what to advise you, really.
            there's a chance you're right and there's a chance you're a little paranoid and she doesn't care about it at all.

            Unfortunately I rarely had a girl FRIEND for a long time that didn't turn into a romantic relationship or ended. Maybe my stupid "alpha male" mind subconciously avoids "friendzone" at all cost. :/

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            • Store210
              11 years ago

              I have sosial problems, aspergers, so i have the hardest time reading body language, to say it this way, if you punch me in the face your mad at me, that how much i can read, so i think i am just paranoid, or maybe i am wanting to see something from her, something that says shes jealius, but then again, if she didn`t say to my face that she loves me in a romantic way i would never get it

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    11 years ago

    My best friend is male (I am female) and we always talk about our partners and what we get up to, just like we are the same sex friends. There is no reason to be embarrassed in any way.

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    • Store210
      11 years ago

      when i talk to a female about other females i feel like i am comparing them

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      • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
        11 years ago

        Awh there's no need to think like that. They wouldn't think they are being compared at all. And I am sure you aren't comparing them either. Sometimes people just find it awkward to talk to someone of the opposite sex about stuff like that. I am sure you aren't the only one.

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        • Store210
          11 years ago

          Let me put it this way, she is my only female friend, and she knows more about me than anyone, the thing we do make many belive we are a cupple, we have done what a guy described as cuddle(i don`t know what that means, but further than that, no.
          It`s not like i want to make a move on her but i would mind to have a deeper relasionship with her, to say it that way.
          She has literalty said that "there is no way we are gonna be a cupple" but i think she said that to make people stop saying we look so good together.

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  • 1776
    11 years ago

    Thats cause you are, obviously.

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    • Store210
      11 years ago

      well, thats honest

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    Why?

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    • Store210
      11 years ago

      because i feel like i am comparing them

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Well thats why men usually have male friends you know?
    So you can talk about things other than shoping and shoes.

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    • Store210
      11 years ago

      i feel more comfortable with females, and don`t talk about shopping, trust me

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        So you're gay?

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        • Store210
          11 years ago

          I am so far away from being gay its almost scary

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          • [Old Memory]
            11 years ago

            You're more comfortable with females, and you go to them to talk about sex?

            Gay...it describes a gay man lol...how have you not heard this?

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            • Store210
              11 years ago

              who said anything about sex, i will tell you i am a virgin, that how much i care about sex, to say that on the internet and carring about it is your doom, i talk about other females of what i like about them, of personality and such, not sex.
              You should think before you type

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  • AnaBanana
    11 years ago

    Don't, if you are just friends why should you feel that way?

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    • Store210
      11 years ago

      thats what i want to know

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