Is it normal to feel lesbian when your not?

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i ask because well first off i am bi. have been most of my life but lately i have been having more thoughts about girls then guys. girls have always came first to me. and now i just feel they never werent an option. (sorry if i spelled it wrong)

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  • Kababaza
    11 years ago

    Why do people feel pressured to have a sexual orientation tag/ label on themselves? Don't worry so much about describing yourself to others, making others understand what you are in your personal/sex life, because quite frankly... its your private life and I don't think anyone but you or your partner should have a say in it. Do what pleases you -of course, as long as its in a cautious and safe manner-.

    I say this because I have a confusing sex orientation, but hey... it is what it is and I accepted it. I like men way more than women, but I can't help but be attracted to women as well, even if I don't take it to a sexual level (because I haven't found a potential female partner yet). No one needs to know this, but if I must I will express it: I don't know what I am, and I honestly don't care, because I feel comfortable with my self.

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    • jucedaguy
      11 years ago

      You sound human to me. You're right about the labels thing too. to me sexuality is so broad that any one person can't fit neatly into one little spot.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    This whole post is so fucking stupid. You know who and what you are as you feel it, you don't choose it and nor does it change.

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  • keeping_up_with_da_kids
    11 years ago

    How can one "Feel lesbian"?

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    • jucedaguy
      11 years ago

      I'd like to feel me some lesbian!

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      • keeping_up_with_da_kids
        11 years ago

        Yes I would as well.

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  • TerryVie
    11 years ago

    check "homoflexible", maybe thats more accurate?

    Though to be honest, your description sounds more like bi-turned-lesbian.

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  • Redcoats
    11 years ago

    If you are not attracted to guys at all and only attracted to girls, I'd say you were homosexual. But hey, if you're lesbian, there's nothing wrong with that (:

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  • Whinyassbitch
    6 years ago

    Totally normal! Bisexuality is a spectrum; u can be a bi girl who's exactly 50% attracted to male and 50% attracted to female, but you could also be anywhere else along the spectrum. If you were 90% attracted to males and 10% to females you wouldn't be straight; you'd still be bi and completely valid! And same goes for having more attraction to females than to males- you're still bi if you identify as bi! I'm bi and my attraction levels for male and female aren't equal at all but I still def know I'm bi, just more off to one side of the spectrum :) ... preference for male/female, I think they call it...

    Hope this helped you!

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