Is it normal to feel lesbian when i am always with that one friend

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First of all, I’m not lesbian.
Starting from the beginning of this year, I feel uncomfortable when I get too close to a friend of the same sex, especially my close friends and best friends.
I feel disgusting about the fact that me and my best friend are always together.
I admit that I don’t have a lot of friends, so that I have to stay with that one friend.
We’re always together, and she’s always following me, and every time we do that I feel so awkward and uncomfortable, I feel lesbian and I repel her from heart.
Is it normal?

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  • buffy55
    12 years ago

    If you guys are truely best friends then you should WANT to be around her.....but if you need a little space that understandable.

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  • thinkingaboutit
    12 years ago

    Why do you sound like the same girl who hates her bestfriend because she's not good enough.

    If you are a real. You have a lot of issues. You sound like more of a predator. Stop it before you develop an ugly disease.

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  • bff
    12 years ago

    I would have to agree with thinkinggboutit

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  • Nanashi_Ninja21
    12 years ago

    I agree with Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Grow up there is nothing wrong with being lesbian. She's probably not even interested.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    "I feel uncomfortable when I get too close to a friend of the same sex"

    "I feel disgusting about the fact that me and my best friend are always together. "

    People don't normally feel disgusted about hanging out with friends of the same gender. Unless they're not secure in their own sexuality.

    Such irrational disgust is usually a sign of fighting off your own desires.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    It's like I feel like I need more close friends, so that I can have more choices, instread of having to stick with her all the time and feel unsatisfied and awkward and uncomfortable and stuff.

    I think there should be some spaces between friends, right, it's not like we're dating each other and one cannot betray the other?? -_______-

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    • GuessWho
      12 years ago

      You're not fucking her and don't intend to?
      Then you're not lesbian. It's okay to love/like your friends in a non-sexual way.

      Maybe you just need to get yourself a boyfriend to convince yourself.

      Anyway, nothing wrong with always being together with a close friend. Same with family, but you can choose your friends, not your family.

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    • ShreksIdenticalTwinBrother
      12 years ago

      Well, it may just be that she's the one who is attracted to you or in need of friends. Look, close friends come once in a lifetime. Just because you think someone is a close friend, doesn't mean that they are. A close friend is there for you, supports you, talks to you, helps you in any way, calls you just to say Hello. That's a close friend and that's someone that you may never find. I know I haven't yet.

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  • ShreksIdenticalTwinBrother
    12 years ago

    Wait a minute, is she attractive? Like super attractive? I only ask this because it is possible that you are picking up The Male Attraction Radar. What that is that if a girl is super attractive, you cannot get away from her and you try to be around her everytime you can.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      no, i dont feel that she's attractive at all. I'm even worried about that if she can get married or not 0____0
      It's not like I cant get away from her and try my best to stick with her... she's the one who's always following me, we're always together that I feel like I want to escape from her... But I'm sure that she don't think Im attractive either :/

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  • ChloeVasiliev
    12 years ago

    Is this because you feel she's may have a crush on you? Or do you simply not want to be around her that much because you hang out to much and feel like a lesbian?
    If you think she has a crush on you try and bring the subject of same sex relationships up ask her if she would be into that sort of thing, stuff like that.
    If you feel like a lesbian because you hang with her to much, tell her you have a lot of work to catch up on and you'll be in for the whole weekend to get away from her for a while and see if you feel any better when you're around her, if not you know the friendship is over.
    Avoiding someone who is supposed to be a friend is hard especially when they don't get the hint but be kind to her no matter what you do. :)

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