Is it normal to feel justified in cheating?

My girlfriend is out of the country for two years. I still love her and want to make it work but I also really desire the "company" of another woman. Is it normal that I feel it's okay to cheat on her because I don't plan on ending the relationship?

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Based on 79 votes (31 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • BigScaryRooster

    If you truly can't stay loyal, then the best thing you can do is break up with her. Two years is far too long. If you stay with her and cheat, you two might not be happy later on down the road.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    At least you're admitting that you're trying to justify cheating.

    still..... you already know the right answer.

    The REAL question is... what do you love more.
    Her, or a quick orgasm with someone else?

    And how will you feel if SHE sleeps around behind your back?

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  • Lynxikat

    If you really loved her, you wouldn't cheat.

    Why can't people understand this simple concept??!?!?!

    Besides, most men who cheat don't ever plan on ending their relationship with their significant other. What makes you any different?

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

      This.

      unfortunately .... the "other woman" never seems to understand that part.

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  • OnThisEpisodeofLife

    cheating is wrong. period.

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  • Alison89

    Personally, I wouldn't be in a relationship that complicated.

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  • CreamPuffs

    If you need to have proper arousal so bad, then masturbate. That's what every other man with an ounce of willpower does when their significant other is too far away to fuck.

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  • blackmesa

    It's normal, but that doesn't mean it's right. Not right.

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  • Coconutsss

    How longhave you been with her?to have that in mind is really wrong so maybe you should end it while she is overthere and maybe when she comes back you could get back together with her but thats if she doesnt find someone else the thing is if you keep this behind her back you willfeel bad and have feelings of regret becomes if you do this you will start wondering if she is also doing the same thing it will ruinit think about where will this get you

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  • FuckedUpMess

    Blah blah blah cheating is wrong no one else has ever done if before. Duh. She can't expect you to e celibate for 2 years. It would be best to end it. But if you're smart and don't get caught is she gonna care? No.

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  • pansyfugufish

    I think 2 years is a very long time. Have you talked to your gf about this, bc she probably feels the same way.

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  • Is it wrong to cheat on someone? Yes. Is it wrong to break off the relationship due to such a long time apart? No.

    Don't cheat. If you want "company", then don't be in a relationship with someone while seeking "company" from others.

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  • If yoo love her yoo won't cheat. Just Think about what it would do too her :/ x

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  • mexiguytex87

    I think its natural, what's unnatural is going two years without sex. Not trying to justify anything just being realistic, definetly talk to her about it, it will complicate things but always be honest with her even if its not always the things she wants to hear. Most likely it won't workout

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  • IrishPotato

    My advice is, ask her the question if you're allowed to.
    This may get sensitive though, she might start to cry.

    NO NO WORRIES!
    Alas, Superman can fuck her like no man has before.

    ANYWAY, back to the point.
    She might start to cry, because you even think of cheating.
    She might agree with it, admit she fucked some dude, and she'd be happy with you.

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  • go ahead get it over and done with then, tonight

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