Is it normal to feel insecure with your boyfriend girl/friend

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my boyfriend has a Girl/friend whom ive never met face to face they talk once in a while.I saw a text from her in his phone that asked him to leave me and go with her and have her babys and all that. when i confronted him about it he didnt deny that it wasnt a joke but he calims there is nothing between them. after a few weeks he then lied to me about going over to her house. he only stayed there for a bout 30 minutes when confronted him about that he claimed that they are only friends he went to go borrow a dvd from her and he didnt want to tell me scared i would get upset.I dont feel comfortable with this girl talking to my boyfriend and is it normal to feel betrayed and insecure...?

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Based on 90 votes (78 yes)
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  • Sog
    11 years ago

    Dump him now. The rule is one girl at a time, and if you let this continue, it's only going to get worse. It's not worth it.

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  • joybird
    11 years ago

    Your feelings are normal but have more arrogance about yourself.

    If he ever goes off with her, she's taking your cast-offs and it would be his loss anyway ;o)

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago

    I think that you should have better faith in your boyfriend. He sounds like he is direct with his feelings, since he didn't deny that he was texting her. I think that his friend likes him and that upsets you. You should tell him how you feel about the whole thing. It's normal to feel insecure but without trust a strong relationship cannot be built.

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