Is it normal to feel insecure about your body boob butt waist

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So im a young asian girl but i still feel in secure about my body. My bf always tells me that he likes me for me and not my body but i cant help but feel insecure. My whole life ppl have been criticizing how i look and compare with other girls. Even my parents say that my butt is too big or they make fun of my body. Im 5'6",weigh 130lbs, dance competitively(strong legs), and my body is like 32-26-38, is it normal to still feel insecure?

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    God firefly, you really must be hideous.

    Those proportions sound great. You're fit and healthy, I'm sure you're beautiful.
    Listen to your boyfriend, he's not lying to you.
    Love yourself.

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  • firefly88
    13 years ago

    Your body is way outta proportion

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  • ComeFlyWithMe
    13 years ago

    You sound fine to me. Your parents are not normal for saying mean things to you about your body.

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  • flamingdolphins
    13 years ago

    Oops, the tags and title got switched

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    I've had many long talks with this asian girl I met on tinder. Big butts are beautiful everywhere else in the world. I think asian men are just insecure their dick wont reach. But you are beautiful. Many guys would kill to be with a girl like you.

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  • Prettyasian
    11 years ago

    I am only insecure of my breast size other than that i am head to toe ok looking. They r not toooo small but they r not big either. I like bigger boobs somehow. In the future i might do breast surgery and u might see me on maxim magazine. Hahah just kidding

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  • Sweetz
    13 years ago

    At least you have a bf

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  • chewy
    13 years ago

    you sounds great how big are your tits? you forgot to put the letter

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  • Whitneyhouston
    13 years ago

    You sound like you're in amazing shape, my parents(mom esp) has always been super critical about my body, but in turn in made me stronger torward everyone else. Like, nothing anyone else can say will hurt as bad as anything my family has said. I'm not even fat is the thing.. Idk, they're just words. Remeber that. Your bf prob loves your body, be confident with it, cuz that's always sexy :)

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  • india-loren
    13 years ago

    my measurements are 30, 25, 32. which is crap. im only 5ft 3" which is short. i have a petite frame but i only like my waist as my boobs and hips are small and narrow.
    there's no need to be concerned though, if your boyfriend likes you for who you are then that's great! and about girls comparing themselves to you.. that's just human nature, they are probably secretly jealous.
    according to the British Association of Model Agents their ideal measurements are 34-24-34 which you are not far off. anyway your a dancer and not a model so your body is probably right for competitive dancing :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    For every body type, there are legions of men who consider it to be ideal. Also, when your boyfriend says he likes you for you and not your body, he is half lying. No man, particularly no young man, could settle for a girl that is not physically attractive to him. He just says that so he doesn't seem shallow. Alot of men are sensitive about revealing how much appearances matter to them for fear of being branded a sex-crazed pig. Your boyfriend thinks you are beautiful, and I'll bet he also likes you for you as well.

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