Is it normal to feel hopeless when i mess up?

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When I mess up, I feel really bad, like everyone is pointing a finger at me. They chant (in my head) how I couldn't do something so easy. When someone picks everything up and I'm stuck behind I feel bad, and when I can't complete anything in a certain amount of time I feel hopeless. I sometimes feel hopeless when I mess up in my social standing, or have done something wrong on the internet,a nod then I just feel I can't do anything anymore. Is it really normal, or am I just a weirdo?

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  • Daisychain1
    7 years ago

    They don't chant in my head but I know what you mean. I think anyone who genuinely fucks up (rather than just believing everything they do is crap) feels embarrassed to some degree or another. I've posted stupid things on the net, including on here.
    That's partly because I don't trust it, partly because I don't trust myself, and partly because we all sometimes blow it. Take care.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    You have social anxiety.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    I think you need to see someone about that.

    I'm no expert but you may have depression.

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    • FrizzyHaired
      7 years ago

      I don't really think I have depression. But I'll take an online test to make sure. Thanks!

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