Is it normal to feel hatred towards a young girl of 21 who is ..

Is it normal to feel hatred towards a young girl of 21 who is on a permanent vacation for the rest of her life?

That's right. She's 21 and she never held a job other than babysitting, she never went to college, she doesn't intend on going, she graduated highschool 3 years ago and yet, she gets to spend time at home relaxing, going to a yoga class, and getting massages 3 times a week.

She doesn't want kids either, so this is her life.

Is it normal to feel hatred towards her? I went to a 4 year college, I work full time 6/7 days a week long hours, I will have 2 children someday in the near future, and I only get 2 weeks off a year while she never has to work ever in her life.

She's not rich either, her boyfriend is dirt poor, but he's bending over backwards to support her.. they have 1 car and he works 15 hour days 5 days a week and when he gets home, he CLEANS the house on weekends. She has told him, "I will not clean". She gets everything while the rest of the world has to work and/or take care of their children and she complains to me about EVERYTHING.

Is it normal to hate this girl?

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79% Normal
Based on 87 votes (69 yes)
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Comments ( 15 )
  • deepthought33

    wow. She must be good in bed.

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  • HarshbutTrue

    don't worry, her boyfriend will eventually snap and beat the sh*t out of her

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    • good point!

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  • she'll find a job or at least apilly for one and had 2 jobs one when i was sixteen getting drinks at a drive restruant the other at a grocery store in whitch i really did'ent care for i'm hoping to get a job at a pet store in my town though i alweay try to help my mother out as much as i can i love my mommy i'll clean the house and do the dishes for her

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  • twixzy

    Dont hate. Eventually she will have to work. Besides if he is poor its not like they can live a luxurious lifestyle.

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  • browndoll

    I wouldnt hate her...Her life may seem perfect or too good to be true to you but more than likely it isnt.

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  • mtnw

    i think you are normal. i would hate her too. i don't know how she gets an opportunity to complain to you, but i couldn't stand listening to it.

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  • Momoftwo

    It's her business and her life. Your hatred is jealousy and no that's not normal. If she's your friend and she's happy you should be happy for her. If your envious that she gets to stay home and enjoy life while your working then find a way to quit quit your job or find a better one. But don't hate on her because she created a life that makes her happy.

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  • memvc

    Life can change. I'll bet her vaca won't be permanent. And you are making your own self miserable.

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  • Uzzie101

    I don't know here and I hate her already.
    Leech.

    She sucks life out of the man!

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  • Duane

    Nobody likes a freeloader. Doesn't matter how good the sex might be. Unwilling to contribute to everyday life means, to me: There's the door, ...don't let it hit you on the way out.

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  • TieDiedSuperstar

    LOL! Can't last, can it?

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  • Eddie_21

    It's not good to hate anyone, but that girl sounds like a major bitch tho

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  • hotchickie81

    I would be so insanely annoyed. I mean I know how you feel! I work my ass off (and have for YEARS), often working like 60-80 hours a week. It bugs me when people always have super long "vacations." Like WTF?

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  • BOYracer88

    yes.

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