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I don't usually have one night stands, but when I do I always feel guilty. I'm not sure if this is from a previous relationship where I still care for them or if it's just common for single guys.
Is is normal to feel guilty after a one night stand?
Why should you feel guilty. There was no harm done. If I felt guilty after every one night stand I had I'd be heading for a breakdown I refuse totally to feel any guilt for doing the most natural thing in the world having sex (even if it is with a different man each week. My body my choice. xxx
No, it's not normal to feel guilty. I got one night stands all the time. You know, just trying out different guys and I'm sure those guys are trying out different girls as well.
It's different if you're in a relationship, then it's called cheating. Even then I still do it sometimes, but I do feel some kind of guilt about it. But since you're not in a relationship there's no reason to feel guilty.
Is it cause you have an STD and you knowingly gave it to her? or cause you told her you bagged it and didn't?
It means you have a soul.
You realise there is another person that might be hurt.
There is a strong chance of becoming very ill.
You sense that you might be a bit scanky, but just a bit as you go back to do the same thing again some where down the road.
The future is not known, you will feel horrible if you find a fabulous person to be with and realize they want you to have not gotten around so much. Besides, what if you run into one of these ONS with the love of your life holding your hand. Boy, that could take some explaining.
I don't always have a one night stand
But when I do I feel guilty as fuck.
Drink responcibly.
Did you enjoy it? Did she?
You must have been raised Catholic.
What a sorry ass thing to do to yourself after a wee bit of fun.
Guilt is like a rocking horse; you get a lot of action, but it gets you nowhere.
Lighten up a bit; life is short and pleasures few and far between, for most.
Yeah its normal. Maybe you feel like you have lost your self respect? So in a way you feel like a whore.
Completely normal, but there's no need to feel guilty unless you forced her into it in anyway. I actually know a few girls (including my girlfriend) to whom this type of question annoys them. It's not like girls aren't capable of getting horny too, who might be looking for an easy one night stand to fill some urges they might have once in a while.
Yeah its totally normal but unless u have feelings for the person or u'r getting shit from friends for doing it - u start to get over the guilt the more have. Ax